And no, it's not my birthday.

This isn't a FR. Two years ago I was at my lowest point ever. Depressed, suicidal, distraught, and just a mess of a human being. Today, I just had sex for the first time, something I thought I'd die before experiencing.

I'm posting this because I've seen many of the same situations. Older gentlemen, whether my age or younger, who have yet to experience sex are wondering as to how they might achieve that experience. Personally, I didn't run any openers, or routines, or anything of the sort. I worked primarily on inner game and a lot of the archived postings helped me greatly in that aspect. Then I just went about life. I picked up productive hobbies and bettered myself through them. I quit jerking off and quit smoking pot, both of which (as I firmly believe) were hindering my advancement in life.

So I ended up doing two approaches because I still had severe approach anxiety and that's the most I was able to force myself to do in two months. Well one of them payed off and not only did I get to experience sex, but I legitimately have feelings for this girl and I will continue seeing her for the time being.

All in all, sex was whatever. Not the end all of earthly pleasures but yea it felt pretty good. Thank you to all those that participate to help enrich this community with quality information. I will be around to answer questions for 24 hours or so.

Once you actually go out and attempt to accomplish your goals, you realize how goddamn easy everything is.