Lost my virginity last week, here's what the girl said attracted her.

meukow · 2015-09-15T14:29:44+00:00

It's funny to me how she likely perceived you as a guy who regularly fucks, is mysterious and didn't really care about her as much so she had to work for the sex when in fact you're just a princess who didn't want to have sex until it 'felt right'.

Well played.

Source: Was in same situation.

ThorLives · 2015-09-15T13:29:54+00:00

Yep. The secret is to actually forget about losing it, then you'll be concentrating on your life rather than kino and approach spreadsheets and sending yourself into a neurotic panic attack.

Lasers_Pew_Pew_Pew · 2015-09-15T16:43:13+00:00

My wigga.

2015-09-15T13:20:19+00:00

Good job on the eye-fucking, that usually takes people longer to master. Carebto share a pic of yourself for analytic reasons?

Take note folks, this guy is the epitome of inner game.

thenakedspeaker · 2015-09-15T16:23:09+00:00

I like this bullet point a lot: "the way I looked at her (eye contact) on nights out was seducing, but I never tried any "moves", it drove her crazy" that's something that is hard to teach. that takes a lot of confidence too. well done.

cmiovino · 2015-09-15T15:26:18+00:00

Congrats. I love to see stories where the pickup community has actually helped two people have enjoyable experiences. That's what it's all about - not just the 'PUA' getting his dick soaked.

Interesting inference on the virginity losing part - many people say the exact same thing. I was a person who put virginity wayyyyy up high on a pedestal and at one time was very much saving myself for marriage. Ironically, this actually created a lot of pissed off girls, weird encounters, and just general social awkwardness on my part. I've heard many guys experiencing them same.

Great to see you didn't just hit anything that moved to lose it. This girl might not be the woman you'll marry or end up with, but as long as it's someone you had a genuine connection with, it was a good choice.

animalspiritarb14 · 2015-09-15T22:01:20+00:00

"I'm 21, discovered the world of pua's when I was 17"

4 years of studying PUA to get laid once?

I think many here have turned sex into some high brow intellectual game to avoid actually pulling the trigger.

She fucked you because women like to fuck too.

Jaja1990 · 2015-09-15T14:08:49+00:00

I don't understand the part of standing/sitting tall.

punis1 · 2015-09-15T17:29:12+00:00

I'm sorry but the secret here is being a tourist on holidays, you're the foreigner they'll never see again, that's why you're attractive.

Also: Portuguese girls are really slutty with foreigners, especially the English ones

marchingprinter · 2015-09-15T14:33:26+00:00

And it wasn't luck, as I've had about 7 girls ask me to sleep with them 6 months prior.

This entire post reads like the delusional fat nerd skit from Key & Peele, I call bs OP.

http://www.cc.com/video-clips/d1hbth/key-and-peele-sex-addict-wendell

MudrakM · 2015-09-15T19:55:43+00:00

HA! Gayyyyyyy.

whyalwaysm3 · 2015-09-15T22:57:46+00:00

I hate to rain in your parade but what she told you is probably not the full truth. That's like capturing a Lion and then asking the Lion to tell you what you did right to capture it, no Lion will tell you the truth because it'll reveal his weaknesses. She probably was there with the intention of getting laid anyway, and she just happened to meet you and settled on you. Sometimes it's all about the right timing.

Of course this doesn't mean you didn't do anything, of course you did some things right but let me tell you as a guy who's been with plenty of women, women rarely tell the truth when it comes to things like this, they're too self conscious to really reveal their true intentions due to fear of being labeled slutty, promiscuous, etc

hcarguy · 2015-09-15T14:34:24+00:00

What do you do for work bro? Great attitude

2015-09-15T13:09:43+00:00

Congrats!

Yeah, that's all there is to it ;-)

Cherray611 · 2015-09-15T13:19:50+00:00

Good for you man :D

2015-09-15T17:52:22+00:00

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unclewalty · 2015-09-15T18:32:38+00:00

better than a wank thou

And that's why we're all here. Thanks for the post.

2015-09-15T22:46:23+00:00

"We spent 5 days/nights together, and she wanted sex from the first night. I only gave it to her the last night, once it felt right"

You fool!

FUCK_YEA_GLITTER · 2015-09-15T23:01:10+00:00

the way I looked at her (eye contact) on nights out was seducing, but I never tried any "moves"

Tones of guys who do this can't get laid... its called not being able to pull the trigger. Being a forigner definately helped im sure. If you want to get laid more than just once you need to know how to close. If she wants it, she'll be expecting you to close. If you dont, you're telling her your too big of a pussy or don't want it.

pacg · 2015-09-16T05:48:11+00:00

Excellent!

When my current girlfriend and I went out the first time, she was wearing this sexy, loose fitting gypsy-style blouse with sleeves that would naturally fall off the shoulder revealing her lingerie strap. Every so often when this would happen, I'd playfully slip the sleeve back up and say something along the lines of, "Hey. Come on now. We're just getting to know each other." This in combination with older-guy confidence, younger-guy cheekiness, and complete openness and candor resulted in the most perfect date I've ever had. For what it's worth, I'm 43 and I swear my game was never better.

Did it all work? Well, she is girlfriend now, so there's that.

2015-09-16T19:44:56+00:00

"I've had about 7 girls ask me to sleep with them 6 months prior. I don't know why I didn't"

I can't even read the rest of this because you're like an alien species that I'll never understand.

trufas · 2015-09-15T14:50:16+00:00

what's kino? :/

2015-09-15T20:37:09+00:00

Lol was OP also first in his SEAL class, on the Bin Laden raid, given access to the entire USMC armory and have a 14" cock? Seriously you sheep fall for this shit? More bullshit than r/TIFU

Trevski · 2015-09-15T19:03:55+00:00

This is a much cooler story than being worried about losing it, then fucking someone much less attractive than you. That's what I did. Not that I regret it, but your story is a lot cooler.

XtremePeace · 2015-09-16T02:56:37+00:00

Congrats. Thanks for your post. What city were they from?

Starkboy · 2015-09-16T03:12:16+00:00

How does one become mysterious? Or atleast show that he is mysterious.

Sonicmantis · 2015-09-16T06:54:15+00:00

Very nice post. Thanks for sharing her feedback! It's always a good (and incredibly confident) move to ask a girl what made her fall for you / when she fell for you.

Anaron · 2015-09-16T11:02:57+00:00

I once realized that I was more successful when I didn't care about hitting on a girl and cared about enjoying myself. When people see you having a good time and smiling, they perceive you in a positive light and that helps with seduction. Also, girls won't put their guard up because they know you're not trying to hit on them.

Well played, OP. Well played.

ChadPUA · 2015-09-19T21:44:08+00:00

Guy has sex with one girl. Novice writes post about what he thinks made one anecdote successful. Everyone goes wild, 300 upvotes.

Next up: guy who caught a fish one time explains how to be a better fishermen

2015-09-15T20:16:26+00:00

I should tell chicks that I'm a virgin. An attractive chick who's slept with maybe 5+ men might be turned on by the thought of training a fresh man, even if it turns out I might have had more partners than her lol

over3000 · 2015-09-16T02:27:02+00:00

Sorry I'm a noob but what is PAU and KINO?

2015-09-15T15:17:34+00:00

sorry to burst ur bubble there...but girls are all different..what made them like will not be the same for others..and i doubt u had 6 girls ask u to fuck them..and if they did they're just whores...

Title	Lost my virginity last week, here's what the girl said attracted her.
Author	fagip
Upvotes	398
Comments	70
Date	September 15, 2015 12:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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