Here's the summary:

Met a REALLY hot girl from bumble. We downed so many drinks, went to a few bars, I was rubbing her ass and inner thigh, she was receptive to it. I followed some advice here and didn't kiss her until I was ready to bring her home at the end of the night. She kept looking at me like she expected me to kiss her though.

When I finally did, she resisted coming home with me. I tried to fight it but failed. She lives VERY far away from me, like an hour, and she took public transportation to get here. I half jokingly told her after we hung out at my place for a bit I would get her uber home for her. She still resisted.

Then she started seeming so weird. She called an uber for herself and seemed like she was mad about something (maybe that I wasn't calling it for her??). We made out some more and I asked her when she was free again, she said Monday, and to text her/we would figure it out.

Before she got into the uber she turned and kissed me goodbye.

After she left:

  1. I texted her to let me know she got back ok. Maybe a bitch move. She never wrote back.

  2. She unmatched my ass on bumble at some point last night, saw it this morning.

Like what the fuck went on here? I know the usual advice is "on to the next," but I really don't understand this one. It's a lot of energy to have these kinds of nights and then to have it fizzle without really knowing why, I just have no idea what the fuck I can learn from it.

Anyone have ideas?

Other tidbits of info: when we were walking around we were holding hands and doing all that stuff. She also has never responded to the text I sent.

TLDR: Met a hot girl from bumble, we seemed to have a great night until I tried to get her back to my place (but even then it didn't seem like a night ruiner). And then she unmatched and ghosted on me completely. 100% unexpected.