FYI: Eye contact is the one of the most important elements in seduction.

teeeewrx · 2016-09-23T19:51:08+00:00

I tried eye contact the other day and looked straight into these girls eyes especially one girl that I liked, not a creepy start but she was talking and I was listening.

I saw she was looking at me directly too and felt something, after all of this if I walked alway she kept looking at me!

I think Eye contact is essential! Without it, you can't get as far as you'd think

Thizzlebot · 2016-09-24T07:01:55+00:00

Good tip, this works great with girls but it also works great with everyone. You appear so much stronger to everyone and it makes you look better, it can really help you in a work environment too.

Xayv · 2016-09-24T00:21:27+00:00

Yeah it's a good thing. Just don't go around clubs or in daygame seeking eye contact as a requirement for approaching. Alot of guys wait for eye contact and miss out on alot of interactions

ChucklefuckBitch · 2016-09-24T07:56:13+00:00

http://i.imgur.com/I95ZEFV.jpg

rib-bit · 2016-09-24T10:31:26+00:00

LPT - eye contact does not mean staring - a glance that's a little longer than a quick look, a look away, then a look back and a smile...women like the game

frankly it's not as easy as it seems and like anything needs practice...

ForbiddenX · 2016-09-24T00:28:20+00:00

I have to start at peoples bridges of their nose, if I try to make eye contact, one of my eyes veers off a little bit. Birth condition, which totally blows.

Kiltmanenator · 2016-09-23T23:48:50+00:00

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milkman10169 · 2016-09-24T09:11:01+00:00

Eye contact is essential. It exudes confidence even when it's not quite there.

Monkey_Jerk · 2016-09-24T00:41:12+00:00

What if you have fucked up skin, not just a couple of pimples?

Entrospection · 2016-09-24T12:28:11+00:00

Can't stress this enough but everyone in here saying what about any shy guys or what if terrible freak pimples. Not just for game but for countless basic aspects of life eye contact is not only respected but probably expected also. If you can't look someone in the face they will subconscioualy think of you as less trustworthy.

The same principle applies to the way really attractive people seem to get treated a little better. Our minds construct these instant opinions and it influences all of our subsequent impressions about these people. So like more attractive people will be perceived generally better just as people who can't hold basic eye contact in say a conversation or handshake will be perceived a little more negatively from those instant impressions of "shifty eyes- nervous-untrustworthy"

That doesn't mean that they will have this overall negative view of you as a terrible untrustworthy person, but eye contact is one of those things that you should be able to do by the time you're an adult.

TimHatesChoosingName · 2016-09-24T12:52:42+00:00

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I_Be_Strokin_it · 2016-09-24T04:52:35+00:00

What if one of us has a glass eye?

VernonMaxwell · 2016-09-24T09:15:59+00:00

I remember hearing (or reading) about this a long time ago. About how he makes people feel like its just him and them, and how he kind looks into them.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0o_EK4EjuEY

SeinoMore · 2016-09-24T23:12:57+00:00

I was sitting outside of shop eating and I gave strong eye contact to a girl working who was sitting inside the shop. She me gave a bit of an uncomfortable look but it wasn't the disgusted look and turn away. While she worked she came out of the shop and talked to customers several times and I ordered from her too. As I left, I chatted with her and her business personality melted away. My logistics were bad and I had to leave it at that but she was totally melting at that point almost misty eyed. I think I might have inadvertently turned her on in the first occasion.

I came back to the same shop later in the evening but she was gone. Another group were drinking at the next table and a cute girl stood out. I caught her eye and there was strong mutual eye contact. As she passed me to go the toilet she bumped into me and I turned and gave her a flash of my eyes which she returned.

Later in the evening she ended up alone on the table next to us and I called out to her, "All your friends are gone!" she replied to me happily "Yes, but that guy who was next to me is my husband!". That surprised me and I was not deterred. When he came back I struck up conversation with him and her and merged our two tables. We had a great party till the end of the evening.

As we were leaving a stunning girl who had been sitting one more table came over and chatted with me. I have to confess, I'm in my late forties, and I think she was just around 20. I held her hand and chatted with her. Honestly, I think she was one of the top 10 most beautiful girls I have ever chatted to. She had been interested in the party we had become but I actually hadn't noticed.

I ended going to another bar with the couple and he husband fell asleep and we drank, sang and chatted for an hour or more. The lady owner of that bar was giving me fairly hot eyes too. As we left, the lady of the couple gave me a big busty hug and I said farewell to her and her husband. Oh, and they picked up the bar bill. Refused to let me pay.

Now, this was all in situation where pickup and seduction really was out of the question but I have never had such run of luck before. Time and again it comes to eye contact to show confidence, making a party and pulling people in. I never had any "luck" before purposely cultivating eye contact and watching for it.

My friend at my table who was with me for all of this is probably mystified about how all this happened as he didn't see the eye communication going on. lol.

throwitawayagainyay · 2016-09-24T23:52:31+00:00

I have eye contact down but I suck at everything afterwards lol

2016-09-24T05:27:58+00:00

10 without making eye contact

So you actually expected good results without making eye contact at all?

Is this serious?

chuu207 · 2016-09-24T06:22:24+00:00

any tip for shy guys?

tommyd_WDE · 2016-09-24T04:13:45+00:00

Hahaha

Title	FYI: Eye contact is the one of the most important elements in seduction.
Author	TimHatesChoosingName
Upvotes	165
Comments	37
Date	September 23, 2016 7:10 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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