Looks are the only things that matter on dating apps. Texting women on dating apps in an attempt to build comfort and rapport with them prior to asking them out is pointless.

So, instead of spending time developing witty bios and coming up with clever opening messages, spend that time developing yourself, becoming more physically attractive, and having very good pictures taken.

If a woman matches with you it means you have been categorized. You are categorized either into date potential category or free attention category. You are on a dating app, so if a woman matches with you, you must always assume that she is physically attractive from the jump.

You can open however you want, but I suggest having an opener that is direct, playful, and fun. You aren't direct to the extent of telling her that you want to sleep with her, but you do need to state romantic interest your opening statements. It's a dating app, you can be bold, and women love it.

Girls literally sleep / make out with guys after talking to them for 5-10 minutes in bathroom bars, there is literally no reason for you to spend all of this extra time making small talk trying to get to know a woman before asking her out. I usually close within 4 messages on dating apps, if they say anything other than "yes" no problem, on to the next.

Dating apps are only about looks, stop being a platonic pen pal, establish that you are romantically interested in them, and set up a date. No amount of extra texting is going to make her like you more. The girl you are talking to has hundreds of dudes messaging her about trivial stuff.

This article goes into more detail about how to convert your matches to dates on dating apps:https://open.substack.com/pub/jackedguy/p/how-to-get-dates-on-dating-apps-a?r=31tj3q&utm\_campaign=post&utm\_medium=web