Mindsets to help you eliminate approach anxiety

souljabri557 · 2017-06-12T22:52:24+00:00

Intimidate the fuck out of your "anxiety" with your EPIC WALL OF TEXT!

jk, great read!

LiveFromArizona · 2017-06-13T01:58:14+00:00

Women don't avoid approaching because of anxiety. They simply expect guys to make the first move.

2017-06-13T03:12:51+00:00

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2017-06-13T11:17:09+00:00

One of the most powerful mindsets for approaching that I would add:

Ok, this girl looks hot. I wonder what she's like. Does she have an education, is she crazy, what hobbies does she have, is she fun to be around, does she know about science, doe she know about confirmation, can she code, what is something that impresses me about her, what are her values, can I imagine to be with her?

This is basically a mix of a few of your mindsets and the Mark Manson mindset and is for me practically the main mindset for approaching.

Mix this one with "I am the fun, I bring the value, I know a lof shit. I hope she's fun too and keep up with that."

PianoOwl · 2017-06-13T14:23:02+00:00

Actually ended up reading all of it. Great read bro.

SyrusDrake · 2017-06-13T11:13:13+00:00

Very interesting evolutionary theory, it does sound plausible. Is there any research about this?

otra_gringa · 2017-06-13T13:37:54+00:00

Women who say it is creepy to approach random people are sad and miserable

I don't disagree with this, but I'd like to add that if the only random people you ever approach are women you want to sex up, that can make your approach come off as creepy. Taking the time to chat up other strangers will give you a more natural, low-pressure approach.

Woujo · 2017-06-13T14:57:47+00:00

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i_shit_on_things · 2017-06-13T04:02:00+00:00

I can dig this. I'll Wait for some chicks to read this and get their opinion

dnomad123 · 2017-06-13T07:06:29+00:00

that was awesome bro

danielinthebox · 2017-06-13T11:14:12+00:00

Women have "being approached anxiety". Also where did you learn to write? How do I improve me writing skills ? Lol

pratseek · 2017-06-13T15:36:53+00:00

I don't disagree that women are terrified of approaching men because one of the fear they have is being rejected, but very hot women know that they won't rejected so fear of being rejected is not a primary fear.. The No 1 fear women have is how to get out of the conversation if the guy happens to be lame..Women primarily don't approach men because they don't know how to get of it if they want to for whatever reasons and mostly the reason is man was lame..

https://wayofwomen.wordpress.com/

caP1taL1sm · 2017-06-13T18:37:30+00:00

Ruminating over the individual intricacies of your target is just your anxiety making excuses to not take action.

This is gold -- way too much effort around these parts into analyzing different scenarios/settings, when in reality those are the long-term variables that converge to a fixed nature. The only thing you can control is yourself and how often you approach

2017-06-14T02:43:14+00:00

When I'm out if practice, I try to remember the pain of failing to approach at all is worse than the pain of being completely shot down.

After a while, talking to all women and not caring about the result becomes natural. The goal is to work toward that.

LimitedContributor · 2017-06-14T02:51:59+00:00

Its a lot. Some of it I read was good though. Haha I should skim through the whole text eventually.

2017-06-15T08:00:35+00:00

Emotions are not irrational; the just are.

ACTING on them, however, could be.

vivalarevoluciones · 2017-06-13T03:55:59+00:00

Or xanax lol. Drugs get you laid you'd be surprised

nefosjb · 2017-06-13T05:27:36+00:00

Anxiety is an emotional reaction created by evolution to prevent us from doing something stupid that could get us rejected from the tribe

Based on what ? Any study ? Scientific proof that it is connected with tribe ?

Stop making theory and claiming that it is fact thanks

Title	Mindsets to help you eliminate approach anxiety
Author	Woujo
Upvotes	199
Comments	44
Date	June 12, 2017 9:42 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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