FR: Date flaked on me. I ended up going out with my wingman, and I got us both laid. (make friends with her friends) Also, Last Hour Resistance

lookingforapttolive · 2018-04-07T16:57:35+00:00

Good job man ! Nice to see a coherent story around here. The "we're not gonna have sex" thing happened to me with the other tinder girl I met 1.5 month ago(we're still in contact). Even though there was no penetration we fooled around and she finished me with blowjob.

Anyways, funny shit when I read hickeys I ran to the bathroom to check myself out in the mirror because last night I fooled around with a girl i her car after talking at the beach.

I hope your endeavors go well with this woman, good luck.

TooHoly999 · 2018-04-07T17:05:49+00:00

Do you have any tips for being a good wing?

Thanks.

BatgirlArie · 2018-04-07T21:36:48+00:00

As a woman, I can definitely say that the, "Ok, this does not mean that we have to have sex" line works wonders. When there's no pressure or expectations of sex, it makes me soooo much more relaxed and comfortable and I usually end up initiating sex later in the night anyways.

HandsomeShyGuy · 2018-04-07T19:13:58+00:00

I thought you guys did each other lmfao

House_headx93x · 2018-04-07T18:36:25+00:00

Confidence. That’s all it is. Women love guys who ooze confidence. Introvert, extrovert, extraterrestrial, doesn’t really matter as long as you’re confident in yourself and give off positive vibes, you’ll see results most of the time. Epic story and great tag team bro

hans1193 · 2018-04-07T18:22:25+00:00

The asshole move is just a shortcut to learning confidence really. Once you really believe in yourself, being genuine, direct and kind works just fine.

Tokemoke · 2018-04-07T20:20:52+00:00

I love reading posts like this.

slaymyanus69 · 2018-04-07T22:33:52+00:00

Idk why it took so long, but your post made me realize how easy it could be to start a conversation with women. Now I just have to make it happen.

cdotsbot · 2018-04-08T05:40:18+00:00

Nice story dude! but can anyone tell me what he did other than being good looking/attractive to the girls and just simply giving himself an opportunity to succeed?

I'm having trouble seeing how any of this would work if the girl wasn't initially attracted to him. Thanks!

theXcepshin · 2018-04-07T18:59:58+00:00

It would be fun to see your wing post his story. If he hasn't already read yours, it would be cool if he posts without reading it.

Kenic_In_MD · 2018-04-07T18:27:08+00:00

Nice work!

TotallyWorrie · 2018-04-07T19:27:01+00:00

Weird I had a girl that's a nurse tell me the same thing about looking like Dr. McDreamy. What state do you live in?

banana_buddy · 2018-04-08T01:20:40+00:00

Sounds like your real wing man were the chicks less attractive friends, curious if there's anything in particular you said or did to get them on your side? Usually when I'm trying to get with a girl, her pals are trying hard AF to cock block.

ColdbloodedEdward · 2018-04-08T01:34:18+00:00

Gj

The accidental typo made my response even better because it showed how little I cared.

it's not that you didn't care, it's just got the point across, the typo thing is watev

Listen, my phone died, so I'm gonna give you my number and you can text me your name.

nb

So I don't want this to just be a one night stand.

always be on the lookout for more

accliftoff · 2018-04-08T04:15:50+00:00

Great story. Curious since you seem to have the looks to go with it, how much do you think that plays a part?

While my game has a lot of room for growth, I also find i find it harder to pick up white chicks as a brown guy.

waggles_his_chode · 2018-04-07T23:19:02+00:00

Damn. Good shit man I'm jealous.

shesnothing · 2018-04-07T23:31:58+00:00

I just got stood up

mutaltcha · 2018-04-08T04:08:48+00:00

At this point we know that these are the girls we are going to make our first approach of the night on. My wing let's me lead, so I tell him "let's go" and I just start walking over to the girls and he's trailing me.

I simply ask the girl in the black about the game of darts. We start talking and vibing. My wing is hitting it off with his girl in the maroon.

Just reading this I've got an anxiety rush. Conversations have been my main issue, I have no problem with approach itself, but it's really had to get into a conversation for more than 1 minute, I just get stuck until it gets too awkward and then I eject, idk, it always feel like I'm forcing it too much to happen or something.

Good job btw, hope I can get to your level someday.

AshyBoneVR4 · 2018-04-08T05:09:39+00:00

We pile 6 people into my little car and head to their place.

Honestly this is always the most entertaining part of the story for me. Congrats on the victory BTW.

SpaceS4t4n · 2018-04-08T01:21:27+00:00

Oh man this was awesome to read. Kudos man!

ChrisAwakeReddit · 2018-04-08T06:26:55+00:00

Quality performance - straight up confidence there.

TheAwesomePrince · 2018-04-09T04:51:25+00:00

I like your idea with the phone but what if she finds out that your phone isn't really dead?

big_brown_money · 2018-04-08T08:35:53+00:00

This is such a great, inspirational story. Is there a particular line you use when you first approach?

2018-04-08T13:44:44+00:00

Great story dude. Wish I had the courage to pick up girls but I'm a broke nigga. Student life sucks.

argosfan24 · 2018-04-08T14:46:25+00:00

Yes! Good job man! Thanks for the great field report! What were the shit tests that you got from black shirt and her friends? How did you get past them?

joniii123 · 2018-04-09T11:51:27+00:00

Hey cool story! Were you ever in the situation that your wingmans girl of interest was more into you and your girl of interest was more into your wingman? How do you deal elegantly with this situation? You just switch spots?

Title	FR: Date flaked on me. I ended up going out with my wingman, and I got us both laid. (make friends with her friends) Also, Last Hour Resistance
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	632
Comments	103
Date	April 7, 2018 4:31 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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