You pay a price for avoiding rejection. Whether you run from it or try to fake / impress your way around it. Your best results are dependent on you getting rejected A LOT more than you think.

DTScurria · 2018-09-04T16:01:32+00:00

I went to a festival by myself this weekend. I must’ve approached dozens of girls and I was only rudely rejected one time. most of the girls were polite and probably couldn’t easily tell I was hitting on them. It worked out all good because I got hooked up with a lil blonde cutie who was feeling my energy. We danced and made out all night I could have made it to her bed but I was satisfied with myself. She snapped me first this morning. :)

eoinii · 2018-09-04T15:50:20+00:00

Sounds simialr to what comedians say, you need to bomb and bomb a lot in order to become better

JustSeriousEnough · 2018-09-04T18:09:00+00:00

Some proofreading in this article would really have elevated it a notch.

stinewoo · 2018-09-05T01:08:56+00:00

Dread it. Run from it. Rejection still arrives.

John-lovestosposh · 2018-09-04T18:09:42+00:00

This is true I probably gotten a good 100 rejection when I first started game until I got results. Doesn’t happen as often but it’s a learning experience

LimitedContributor · 2018-09-04T23:01:32+00:00

I was going to say this. I totally agree. Its extremely important to at least put in your best effort, always. You will just never know otherwise, which is more misery. I admit. I thought it was good to sometimes let your negatives save you but in actuality its the other way around.

It will sting sometimes but don't let that stop you. Always try in the end or you will never improve.

eckzotic · 2018-09-05T01:58:49+00:00

That's cool and all. But I don't think tigers and gazelles share the same habitat....

That being said this was a good read

bernhardus · 2018-09-05T09:36:31+00:00

key thing is "trust the process"

HoneyCocaine · 2018-09-05T04:12:37+00:00

Great article thanks for sharing!!!

One_Insanity · 2018-09-05T17:08:08+00:00

This is one adorable bastard

functionalsociopathy · 2018-09-04T15:51:44+00:00

"Your best results are when you bet on 00 until you win big"

This is only true if you have a gambler's mindset. To a normal person the high of winning big isn't worth the cost of losing 99 times before succeeding. Many people want to claim that you risk nothing by approaching, but you are risking many things just by approaching currently. Getting a 5 year prison sentence and a lifetime on the sex offender registry may be an uncommon outcome of asking a random girl for her number, but so is her saying yes.

Your best results is to play it coy until you can tell whether or not the person you're talking to is a time bomb. Otherwise you're just playing a game of Russian roulette where you get a date after every few dozen rounds.

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