What is your seduction-related unpopular opinion?

noprideinsomniac95 · 2019-01-17T17:38:30+00:00

Women wouldn't be able to cope if they had to start approaching Men

Edit * good topic post btw

ChocolateGlamazon27 · 2019-01-17T20:37:51+00:00

Men need to dress better and smell good to attract better girls. Looks are important to us as well.

Spaceman7Spiff · 2019-01-17T19:29:37+00:00

Just because you practice "game" doesn't mean you need to start your own YouTube channel. 😉

That was mostly a joke but here's two that are serious.

I think that a lot of guys that are following the status quo and not getting results need to take a break and perhaps focus on personal hobbies rather than to keep approaching.

Also I think going out specifically to day game is weird and pretty cringey unless you are exceptionally good.

Livefreeconsulting · 2019-01-17T20:31:14+00:00

A lot of the vocabulary used on this sub & peddled in these Youtube vids is weird, cultish, and half of the concepts don't work.

2019-01-17T22:18:50+00:00

RSD videos aren't gospel

totalwpierdol · 2019-01-17T23:31:12+00:00

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SmashBrosNotHoez · 2019-01-18T00:50:16+00:00

Online dating was designed to make dating easier but paradoxically has made dating harder, especially for men. In the age of social media and online dating apps, we now have access to hundreds of options, therefore people especially women are becoming pickier and pickier. Which is why a lot of women suffer from "grass is greener" syndrome where they become so picky that they can't find a man thinking that someone better is just around the corner.

mseand · 2019-01-17T16:48:38+00:00

Men and women are the same

There is no such thing as "the one"

Unclejimbo2 · 2019-01-17T22:03:42+00:00

Double texting is perfectly okay

K3wp · 2019-01-17T18:24:29+00:00

"Shit Tests" as they are described in the PUA community really don't exist. She just doesn't like your scrub ass and is making that clear.

A real shit test is when you are already dating a girl they are trying to decide both whether or not you are a keeper and what they can get away with.

noprideinsomniac95 · 2019-01-18T12:27:31+00:00

Consider who's giving you advice. Some guy who's buff and working for a gym is going to attract and be attracted to different girls than the misunderstood musician guy who's going to attract and be attracted to different girls than the bookworm intellectual guy. Sure, some things are universal, but all I'm saying is don't blindly accept any advice you get, think critically about it, and understand who's giving it.

noprideinsomniac95 · 2019-01-18T02:08:38+00:00

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Authentic2017 · 2019-01-18T20:52:07+00:00

Game is so much easier than the community makes it. It isnt so logical as everyone thinks, it should be fun not some computer game as MANY people try to say it is.

Incels don't exist to me. Just how Narcissists delude themselves of greatness, incels delude themselves to thinking they are far worse then they really are.

Treating girls like shit actually works, but nowhere near as close as people claim you have to in order to achieve said results.

Shit Tests should not be a thing. If you really are the person she is testing to see if you are then you shouldnt worry about them, since you already are that guy. You already know your a human, so would you care if someone "human tests" you since you know your going to pass? On that note, I dont think girls even shit test at all, i think thats just their way of flirting, poorly so lol.

RSDs videos are meant to help you in one area and create insecurity in another so you can keep coming back to them, because if they told you that game isnt as difficult as they make it out to be, they know youd realise you dont need them as much as they make you think.

Sometimes, just taking a break from game and focusing on yourself actually improves you (I did this and i realized that alot of what RSD tries to teach, you already knew on some level it you were any kind of social person already).

totalwpierdol · 2019-01-17T19:37:40+00:00

most issues with nervousness and anxiety can be eliminated by eliminating the bad habits that are causing them to begin with, instead of 'just exercising/meditating' more

totalwpierdol · 2019-01-17T18:14:37+00:00

You can't be confident and socially outgoing if you're ugly/unattractive.

Also girls know their level of attractiveness while there is no way for men to know theirs.

HanSoloHere · 2019-01-18T00:06:40+00:00

Cold approach is a waste of time for the most part, its mostly done to make money. Social Circle Game and Warm Approach is where most of the results come from.

fqGmUjDT2GCAmFqN · 2019-01-18T07:39:03+00:00

following any to-do lists or videos is what gives you the whole anxiety bs. all you realy need to know is not to be a pushover, don't cater, most importantly, have respect for yourself.

Serpenthum · 2019-01-17T22:11:47+00:00

If you get your life together, the women will follow naturally.

SmashBrosNotHoez · 2019-01-18T00:38:36+00:00

Women are turned on by hot guys, just as much as guys are turned on by hot girls.

Looks matter a lot more than you think. If a guy has some major physical or mental flaw (being obese, being very short, being physically disabled) or he is simply really unattractive, being funny or confident won't make a difference, women will still be largely unattracted to you.

Title	What is your seduction-related unpopular opinion?
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Date	January 17, 2019 4:07 PM UTC (7 years ago)
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