Are there real playas here?

Sheroclan · 2019-08-22T08:25:09+00:00

Idk. I get looking for nutty stories and talking about # of lays, etc etc.. But this sub used to be something different a couple years ago.

When I first joined this sub I had just gotten out of my first relationship (kissless virgin until that relationship) and I was kind of lost. That relationship was pretty toxic, but it fell into my lap and the virgin I was stayed in it for 1.5 years. This sub really turned shit around for me internally and I read a ton about being a better man. Girls kinda came after that. I went from not knowing how to pick up chicks to ONS and picking up bartenders.

With that said, my 'count' is like 7. It went from 1 to 7 in 2 months (End of July - end of September) and I've been dating this bad ass chick for almost 2 years since.

Could that number have gone up even further had I wanted to just get the count up? Yeah. I slept with girls in hostels I just met while I was traveling. It was fun and I enjoyed it, but it never was (and never really has been) my thing to actively hunt a # of partners.

Do I still get hit on/asked out? Could I pick up chicks if I still wanted? Yeah of course. But I'm also not a complete douchebag and enjoy dating my partner.

FlakyAnimator · 2019-08-22T07:20:41+00:00

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smoothmax · 2019-08-22T14:46:27+00:00

It's not about stats and slaying 10s. Guys that are determined to do that probably succeed to some extent but then burn out on the emotional emptiness of such a shallow pursuit. If you think like that, you're gonna judge yourself as only as good as your last 10 and you're gonna be all stressed about when your next 10 is gonna happen.

To me it's about the joy of getting better and better with women, having better sex at whatever rate it happens, and getting along better with people in general.

BrunoFromBrazil · 2019-08-22T13:46:38+00:00

Yep, former Venusian Arts coach here.

I'm here to help others, not to tell cool stories. But if you're interested in stories, I could share a few :)

MY STATS: Playing since 2009

Many thousands of sets (no idea how many)

Hundreds of closes (no idea how many).

Had a few threesomes and all kinds of crazy sexual experiences.

Had 2 guys literally ON THEIR KNEES, in the middle of the nightclub, begging me to teach them how I was doing what I was doing (I was making out with 5 girls at the same time).

All I can say is: game WORKS. And I use mostly Mystery Method + Natural (Richard La Ruina's stuff, who I know personally btw and is a freaking legend)

TinderongKupido · 2019-08-22T10:49:38+00:00

You are aiming for fantasy. Deal with reality and improve yourself. You'll get the 8's and one day when you do not expect it, you'll get a 10. Sometimes you'll get the 6 and enjoy more than the 9's. Thats life. Inner game!

https://youtu.be/1ryqSxhwtsE

mrsspookycryptid · 2019-08-23T04:20:41+00:00

I just got here, but I’m a 27F, been actively pursuing sex for a little over a decade, and I’ve got 64 men and 86 women notched on my bedpost, though some were multiple at a time. I’m active in BDSM and on fetish websites, am a domme, was a dancer for seven years, and briefly dabbled in porn during my first undergrad degrees (I don’t count those encounters in my count.) I don’t really think the number is the most important thing by any means; a master seducer may have a much lower number than a total geek just out of selectivity/situation/age/what have you. There does seem to be some pretty relevant advice here, but there also seems to be a lot of shite from people who don’t appear to have ever gotten past second base, so hopefully most of you are able to tell most of the time what’s at least blatant BS.

AdrenalineJunkySloth · 2019-08-22T10:06:14+00:00

Player? nah. Ladies man? Yes.

Alpha-Daddy23 · 2019-08-22T11:52:35+00:00

🔥🖤💯 Alpha's read. Lol.

theosamabahama · 2019-08-22T14:23:15+00:00

I think I'm intermediate on online game. Since the beginning of the year, I've been using 3 different dating apps. I've been on 10 dates, had sex with a different girl each month. I can usually have sex on the first date or second date. If it's a second date, the girl just goes straight to my place.

However, I have no idea how to do cold approaches. Be it during the date or in night clubs. But I'm decent on picking the friend of friend in a social circle.

OnJupiterImThickAF · 2019-08-22T14:32:17+00:00

Tbh in the last 6 months I've gone from 0 to 5 FWB on the go as of now

DBOLsinyourmouth · 2019-08-22T16:05:33+00:00

"Real playas" don't spend their time on Reddit because they're too busy living life.

ntipz011 · 2019-08-22T07:55:58+00:00

What you wanna know buddy ?

Went clubbing solo yesterday, met this ultra sexy 35 years old, she paid me some drinks, we went home together and she was extra happy.

There's nothing too impressive about successful lays.

karapuzik123 · 2019-08-22T07:39:29+00:00

Agreed with a lot of points.

I think it would be helpful for a lot of “PUA”s to go back to the roots of the game and read OG PUA Casanova’s memoirs.

For those who are lazy to read 7 volumes, I will summarize: Casanova was shit whenever he was broke.

Degenthrowaway- · 2019-08-22T15:34:25+00:00

One of the top alpha males at my entire university checking in.

Title	Are there real playas here?
Author	karapuzik123
Upvotes	6
Comments	30
Date	August 22, 2019 6:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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