Has anyone had success with straight up propositioning girls?

ArmitageShanks69 · 2019-11-18T19:00:21+00:00

I did this when I was in my late 30's with a barmaid at the pub. I was drunk and sat down next to her at a table after she'd finished her shift - I mean she wasn't attractive, about 40ish and chubby, but I literally just blurted out to her, "I'm going to take you home and fuck you tonight"... She simply replied, "Oh are you now?"

Suffice to say I went with her to her house that night as she lived 2 mins from the pub, didn't fuck her but got an incredible bj - she sucked me dry and she became my 'bj buddy' for about a year and used to go round her house most nights after the pub and get my balls emptied. The lights always went off but she was very good.

BensonInFL · 2019-11-18T21:20:32+00:00

Has anyone had success with straight up propositioning girls?

Let's say that you use normal pickup techniques and you get 5/100 closes which end up insta-date and sex... then you switch to this and you get 1/100 . Would you argue that you 'had success'? Technically yes it worked in that your opener led to sex, but most would argue that having such an opener which almost always forces the girl to put up barriers and lower your close rate is not 'successful' per se.

-B

RaptorMan333 · 2019-11-18T23:06:54+00:00

I do think it can work, and I've heard of people that have done it. Also I think I've heard it called the Apocalypse Opener, and the main part is to absolutely hold your ground and your frame, and don't diffuse the tension with some lame comment. Hold it and wait for her to respond. She will probably stare at you wondering if you're serious, and if you hold your ground, even if she doesn't leave with you quickly, it can be a good way to start the interaction and get her to take you seriously. Probably best to do this at like 12-1am and not like 10:30.

I think it's also important to make the distinction that it should actually be "coming home" with you and not explicitly saying "fucking" or "sex". She gets to reserve SOME amount of plausible deniability.

Hubblenobbin · 2019-11-18T21:29:48+00:00

Closest I've gotten is opening with "I love you." completely seriously. I slept with one girl(8) 10 minutes later. I also did this to one of the hottest girls I've ever seen and she was enamored, I tried pulling her home but the orbiter she was with started getting violent with me so I bounced. I hadn't learned how to make dudes back down with eye contact yet. Both times I was in the zone.

manonpoint_com · 2019-11-18T22:14:57+00:00

Very rarely. It's a pretty poor strategy though, even if it does work like one out of 100x (maybe more if you're really good looking, but even then, there are better ways).

CaptainPUA · 2019-11-18T21:09:31+00:00

I would never expect success with attractive women to come from this you're more likely to get a slap.

asiam_man · 2019-11-19T06:25:02+00:00

No, but I've pulled girls without saying hardly anything. Just eye contact at a party, grab her hand, and pull her into a room.

Twobithatter · 2019-11-18T23:53:59+00:00

I don’t think it’s be worth it. It would rarely work and when it doesn’t your whole rep could be ruined like that.

Xazax310 · 2019-11-19T13:02:09+00:00

Personally I think the Nuclear Option is going right up to a girl you find attractive and saying "I love you" "Lets run away to Vegas and get married right now!". Depending on how you present that you definitely could get laid that night/day off doing that or creep some girls out.

thenativeshape · 2019-11-19T17:33:45+00:00

This once happened to me a few years ago. I politely declined what was frankly one of the most presumptuous interactions with another human it has ever been my displeasure to have had. It doesn’t matter that the guy was attractive or polite, it is unacceptable to approach a stranger in this manner. I still tell people about it to this day and we all laugh at how pathetic that person was. It’s guys like this one and anyone else here considering this as an option that make girls second guess a guy who approaches them, and prepare for what is only going to be an embarrassing situation for both of us.

vtxfun · 2019-11-20T23:14:17+00:00

It depends on how close it is to last call. If she is still alone at that time, the blunt approach just may work. If it doesn't, she won't remember your obscene pick up line anyhow. Good luck.

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Date	November 18, 2019 6:47 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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