Tips for women to be seductive

ogafranky · 2020-01-23T02:59:46+00:00

Flirt, laugh at his humour, dress nice smell nice. Show him attention

Sneaky___ · 2020-01-23T06:58:23+00:00

Eye contact, it's basic but it's honestly super important to me

sincityhunter · 2020-01-23T09:23:39+00:00

Being goofy makes a girl stick out in my mind. Like sometimes I'll remember it and it will make me laugh.

Example: One time I walked into a room and a pretty cute coworker was doing this weird dance with her eyes half closed. She sees me seeing her do this and she says to me "This is my really tired and hoping they send me home early dance"

Shes married but if she wasn't, I would of fell in love with her right there

WinstonsVictoryGin · 2020-01-23T16:14:22+00:00

I was set up with my friends boss and I took her to a bar. We were sitting at the bar and she turned her chair so she was one hundred percent facing me, instead of both of us facing forward and talking. This made me feel very valued and I quickly felt comfortable. It also allowed me to be more physical, like touch her arm and stuff. We ended up fucking after the date. So that was pretty cool.

Edit: I’m 25M.

bemore_ · 2020-01-23T16:47:03+00:00

She just needs to be healthy, physically and mentally. The rest doesn't matter

scarrax · 2020-01-23T23:29:12+00:00

I think you’ve probably got the flirting, looking good, dressing well, etc part down pat. That’s the easy part for women.

When I’m considering a woman as a potential long term girlfriend sex is definitely a key for sure, but I’m also looking at what else she has to offer other than just sex. If sex is the best thing she can offer me then I won’t take her that seriously; I’m confident enough to know that I have plenty of options if I’m looking for just sex.

I’m looking particularly for what makes her stand out among the other girls. Can she keep up with my sense of humour? Can she hold a conversation with me? What are her ambitions or goals? Is she going to be a partner or does she want to be taken care of? Could I see myself introducing her to my friends and family? Would I be proud to call her my girl? Is she more trouble than she’s worth? Does she seem like the type to communicate well? Can I trust her? Does she accept me for me? Can I safely say she’s not just settling for me? Does she respect me and my boundaries? Are her boundaries too much for me to handle?

When it comes to sex, how good is our sex? Can I see she’s comfortable expressing herself fully? Am I free to express myself in the bedroom as well? Do her sexual needs match mine? Can she keep up with me? Can I keep up with her? Do we enjoy our time together?

You should be asking yourself these questions as well when it comes to a guy. Know your value, know what you’re worth, know what you want, don’t tolerate any disrespect, and don’t settle for less.

whirleymon · 2020-01-23T02:40:31+00:00

Butts, boobs, and butts.

codewizbambam · 2020-01-23T07:03:28+00:00

Well the initial assessment of attractiveness of a female mostly works over visual cues for us guys. Most females assess the charisma of a guy first. So from the getgo, you should have your visual impression in shape (i know feminists don't like that, but it's the truth and it seems to be genetically caused). Your character mostly accounts for your likeability for us guys. In addition to that, one of the other commenters said you should make him feel like he's seducing you, that is actually a good idea. Besides that, there are a few books you can read on the topic, like Arden Leigh's book or "The Art of Seduction" by Robert Greene.

desecrationsmile4 · 2020-01-25T00:31:32+00:00

Most of the men I’ve dated all do the same. Work gym and home during the week. Weekends are used for all the fun. Depending on if our teams are playing then we will go out during the work week to catch some games, and local concerts since those are basically always on weeknights, but that’s usually it. Sucks working 7-6 everyday. It’s not only draining but also so time consuming.

But yeah maybe there’s a new workout class or something I could hit up to meet someone. At least that way it’ll introduce me to someone already spending their time at the same place I’ll be daily. Dating after college and once set in your full time career makes it so much more challenging ha. But I’m also too picky most of the time hence not settling anymore on men and the typical problem of being a women wanting what I can’t have. Then comes into play once I get what I “thought” I couldn’t have, I don’t want it anymore haha

PixelBot · 2020-01-26T23:19:46+00:00

Touch him. Touch his shoulder. Kiss him on the cheek. Touch his hand.

thatbitcheatscake · 2020-01-28T02:59:01+00:00

I’m a f26 high five! Dating is so hard! First a pleasant vague connection. Making a guy feel like they can be themselves and making them feel like they have an affect on you. I am reading the art of seduction by Robert Greene I love it. You have to find the right victims. An accomplished content guy would be much harder to seduce. Practice your seduction skills with easier prospects. With experience you’ll get better and learn. But don’t you think seduction is a gift that only a few were born with... cause it’s not. People have ptsd when is comes to love so everyone’s wall is pretty high. You have to be yourself, and refine a few details to make you even more seductive. Avoid texting. being unpredictable is great. Every guys mind is in a different place, know where he’s mentally. ! Have standards too! Steve Harvey’s book is great too! But that’s only if you want to explore the art of seduction. If ur looking for love you have to ruthlessly skip to the one you have undeniable connection with. When your with your soul mate you’ll feel like you never want to leave. When you get that feeling he’s the one. It’s a rare feeling so when you feel it he will prolly will feel it too

UCLoon7 · 2020-01-23T03:48:53+00:00

In general, the simple answer is make him feel like he's seducing you. If you believe in "soul mates" or "the one," you need to understand that's all bull shit. The best way to make yourself less attractive to a guy is to talk about soul mates and start imagining he's "the one." As a woman, I imagine you've got your eyes on your "one." You don't want to believe that there is no "one" person that's made for you, but I promise you that believing in "the one" is why guys you like lose interest.

banooch · 2020-01-23T08:33:18+00:00

Us men are pretty dumb and easy. We may not understand what to do when you are “seducing” us. Just ask us if you want to go somewhere private and make out and I’ve never heard of a guy turning this down.

2020-01-23T09:10:56+00:00

Wear a skirt or dress or something feminine.

Show off your boobs and ass.

Get very close in his space but don’t kiss or anything, let the tension build.

Whispering dirty talk is really good and will drive many men crazy.

Title	Tips for women to be seductive
Author	desecrationsmile4
Upvotes	13
Comments	36
Date	January 23, 2020 2:33 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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