About to be a 24 year old virgin in January

2020-12-21T13:07:01+00:00

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RProgrammerMan · 2020-12-21T06:24:25+00:00

Who cares. There will be people who judge you for doing it a lot, there are people who will judge you for not doing it enough. Do what is right for you, not what other people want you to do.

jamieboy17 · 2020-12-21T06:43:30+00:00

Explore for answers, this is not your true problem, this is a side effect of a greater odd at play. Once you find the root cause of this issue in which you have found yourself in you will be motivated and you will become better at everything you do. Find a remedy that works for you and everything else will fall into place. I swear, life has a way of figuring things out when your open to figuring things out with it. Yes I know change is uncomfortable and scary but you need it. Now more than ever later my friend. Until next time. Live in peace.

harmonic- · 2020-12-21T07:45:27+00:00

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enjsndi9999999999 · 2020-12-21T09:36:37+00:00

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PovertyStricken14 · 2020-12-21T05:33:02+00:00

Don't worry about women too much, but lifting weights and building muscle will help. Consider joining the military if you don't have anything else going, there's alot of benefits

NefariousDude · 2020-12-21T07:47:25+00:00

Don’t feel bad for lack of results. Feel bad for not trying.

enjsndi9999999999 · 2020-12-21T08:26:52+00:00

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Illiteratap · 2020-12-21T08:35:25+00:00

You might not wanna count howlong your virginity is on reign as that does not really matter as you might think. Start thinking that you’re well set in life already despite your record and fhat you have your life way ahead of you, friend.

Girls are there always.

grranby · 2020-12-21T08:58:02+00:00

The poorest of us all only have money my friend

improve-me-coder · 2020-12-21T09:06:56+00:00

30 year old here if it makes you feel better.

OzBozza · 2020-12-21T05:51:23+00:00

Go see a hooker. Or go to a massage parlour. Get comfortable being around women

Disturbed_Aidan · 2020-12-21T07:51:47+00:00

Nice one. You beat my record.

BiggerBadgers · 2020-12-21T07:59:50+00:00

I’ve got friends who were virgins older than you are now. Don’t stress homie. It’ll come. Work on finding confidence and happiness and these things will fall into place.

BalkanRay · 2020-12-21T08:59:24+00:00

You dont need money to meet girls and get laid.

2020-12-21T08:01:30+00:00

Go and see some hookers. They will help without any problems.

Funkyding · 2020-12-21T11:27:56+00:00

Psilocybin can help

LLVLTrojax · 2020-12-21T09:28:39+00:00

Lift yourself out of the hole you’re in first before trying to find someone.

Start with listening to Jordan Peterson.

VDKay · 2020-12-21T09:27:47+00:00

Quick answer is that you don't want it enough yet, and that you are far too settled in your own loneliness and comfort zone.

I find it difficult to believe that you don't come across any girl that would interest you during your week. If you do, why not just talk to them? If you can't even do that, it shows how settled you are. Simple as that

MakeItGain · 2020-12-21T11:43:58+00:00

Get everything in order and get yourself in a good place before you start women. If you arent in a good mindset trying to attract a woman or even sleeping with a woman will be like trying do a high jump wearing a backpack full of bricks.

I dont know your situation but you just have to change it. What you are doing is making you miserable so just change it. Cut off whatever is draining your money and time and begin to focus on yourself.

Puzzleheaded_Tune_23 · 2020-12-21T09:16:26+00:00

Oh my God bru whyyy🤣☠️

Silly-Employment · 2020-12-21T08:07:41+00:00

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FlanneryODostoevsky · 2020-12-21T09:07:49+00:00

Most important thing is to first feel like you can make a girl happy. See yourself in that way. Recognize your own gifts so you can show them to others. Approaching women is then about finding someone who can appreciate what you offer.

Cpt-Dreamer · 2020-12-21T09:59:46+00:00

Join the club

gentlemengunslinger · 2020-12-21T12:17:55+00:00

I lost my virginity when I was 30. Just take your time and live your life according to you.

kyuuvy · 2020-12-21T12:35:01+00:00

You are still young man. I’m 26 years old and we are apparently on the same boat. The pandemic situation is not making it any easy dor us to even date women.

2020-12-21T12:45:12+00:00

Strip club, VIP, if you’re trying to get it out of the way bro. Means to an end.

ADP_God · 2020-12-21T13:00:51+00:00

The best place to start, in my humble opinion, is to find friends, and be active in engaging in friendship. Don’t worry about being needy, but be honest and open.

enjsndi9999999999 · 2020-12-21T13:37:32+00:00

Congrats bro! You’re about it to hit the threshold of “innocent college student” to “ugly broken guy”. Once you pass 25 women assume you’re a virgin because there’s something wrong with you. Whether it’s physically (you’re ugly as fuck, extremely fat, poor, etc etc) or you’re damaged mentally. Regardless women don’t wanna teach a grown man how to be a sexual man to them, like they don’t want to put any effort in. They can find another guy who isn’t a virgin or ugly or poor and that doesn’t require any extra effort.

Title	About to be a 24 year old virgin in January
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Upvotes	234
Comments	101
Date	December 21, 2020 5:19 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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