Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached?

DaygameCode · 2024-03-23T21:42:52+00:00

People who exhibited resourcefulness and adaptability were more likely to thrive in changing environments and unpredictable circumstances.

In the context of attracting women, demonstrating creativity, spontaneity, and a willingness to explore new experiences signals to potential mates that the man possesses the mental flexibility and ingenuity necessary to overcome challenges and provide for a family.

For example, a man who plans exciting and novel dates or surprises his partner with unexpected gestures shows that he can inject variety and excitement into the relationship, making it more fulfilling and satisfying for both partners.

This ability to keep things fresh and engaging can contribute to a woman's perception of a man as a desirable long-term mate.

And social status often correlated with access to resources, protection, and reproductive opportunities, so men who possessed high social status, whether through leadership, charisma, or social influence, were often more successful in attracting mates, persuading and forming strong social alliances.

In the modern context, women are still drawn to men who exhibit these qualities, as they signal an ability to navigate social dynamics effectively and command respect, and admiration from others.

A man who can captivate a room with his charisma, charm, and wit is usually perceived as more attractive and desirable by women, as they are drawn to individuals who can engage, persuade and inspire others in social settings.

This shows the man has the social skills and confidence necessary to navigate complex social interactions and thrive in various social contexts, which is appealing to women seeking a partner who can complement and support them in social situations.

And lastly, when humans lived in tribes and caves, being tight-knit with your partner wasn't just nice, it was crucial. People relied on each other for everything from hunting to raising kids. So, the ability to really connect emotionally with a partner was like gold. It built trust, made teamwork easier, and kept the love alive.

When it comes to attracting women, guys who can really connect emotionally are like magnets because it shows they're not just in it for the fun times. They're there for the deep stuff too – the sharing, caring, and understanding.

Plus, when a couple is tight emotionally, it's not just good for them, it's good for any future kids too. Kids do best when they're raised in a loving, supportive environment. So, women might naturally be drawn to guys who show they're all about that emotional connection – it's like a sign they'll be great partners and parents.

Cefalu87 · 2024-03-24T00:36:31+00:00

would you want to hang around with someone who bored you? no? then why would women want to do that?

epimpstyle · 2024-03-24T13:17:42+00:00

Just be a human being and talk about everything, there is no need for "emotional stimulation".

Emotional Stimulation - Jesus Christ! I guess whoever said that has been smoking some weed.

idk_wuz_up · 2024-03-24T02:00:14+00:00

She needs to know she means more to you than bubba across the street. And you just saying so doesn’t do shit for her. She needs to see it, consistently, through actions.

Just like a woman can tell you she is horny for you, but if she ain’t fuckin you, you’re gonna get “bored” talking about fucking, and move on.

What on earth are you thinking so hard about over there? She needs to know she is important to you. If she isn’t, just tell her that. “Is it okay if we keep fucking even though I don’t really have feelings for you?” She may say yes bc women love sex.

alcoyot · 2024-03-24T03:17:11+00:00

Just be good in bed and give her the gift of missing you. Don’t overcomplicate things. Also be a fun person don’t have bad vibes. Remember when you were a kid and used to be playful

lolothe2nd · 2024-03-23T21:42:31+00:00

Just watch some scary movies together

Ampboy97 · 2024-03-24T04:00:06+00:00

It’s called attachment theory and because women are socialized to be preoccupied/anxious attachment style they tend to get more clingy than men. Men can act this way too. My friend’s boyfriend is like that.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-03-24T13:19:50+00:00

Because women look for the best emotional support from.their partners. If you stop emotional stimulation, you will lose to Jack who did what you view as a bare minimum. Bare minimum > none hence she switches

ROBYoutube · 2024-03-24T02:59:27+00:00

Holy fucking shit I hope this sub doesn't turn into askmen where every question is a contrived excuse for a pity party or a circlejerk where we complain about women.

Fast_Wonder · 2024-03-24T01:46:26+00:00

Women make their own money, have friends, their own things now, and can easily find sex. If a man cannot connect with us on an emotional level, why would we need them?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-03-24T00:32:36+00:00

See it as men and women having different operating systems.

Men operate on logic.

Women operate on emotion.

With that said, stimulating a woman's emotions is not done with logic or facts...but the act of doing so is logical.

Because stimulating a woman's emotions is the logical way to connect with her, you are demonstrating manliness by doing so.

5hr00m · 2024-03-24T01:17:01+00:00

Remember that ignoring a girl for a few days or even weeks can sometimes create more emotions in her than actively trying to get her attention.

Curia-DD · 2024-03-23T21:39:22+00:00

Woman here and I don't know, but if I get bored quickly then I'm probably going to move on

ViatoremCCAA · 2024-03-24T10:50:21+00:00

Because most (western) women do not develop beyond the child stage of development.

LDM123 · 2024-03-24T02:04:56+00:00

They don’t. Being needy will repel your partner if anything

Kagenikakushiteru · 2024-03-24T08:26:40+00:00

Only western women tbh

atomant88 · 2024-03-23T21:54:20+00:00

lol they dont. what are you smoking?

Smergmerg432 · 2024-03-23T23:32:59+00:00

It simulates the excitement of having routine orgasms :)

Stavius-Blackthorne · 2024-03-23T22:01:06+00:00

Nah it’s the new “I have a boyfriend”. A girl will say she’s a lesbian even if she isnt

Title	Why do women need constant emotional stimulation to keep them attached?
Author	aaamiriii
Upvotes	79
Comments	36
Date	March 23, 2024 9:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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