25M. I’m not a virgin but I’ve only had sex like three times w girls I didn’t find very attractive. Had some make outs at the club but never had a girlfriend.

In college my roommate fucked a lot while I got pretty much nothing. He’s also pretty good looking.

Here’s the weird part. When I jerk off, I don’t think of myself and the girl having sex, I think of HIM and the girl I like having sex. OR I imagine a time he kicked me out of the room to have a tinder hookup (I wasn’t there obviously so my imagination is my worst enemy).

I hate this mentality and want to get over it, because I think it’s ruining my chances at getting laid.

Has anyone experienced this issue before? I can talk to girls fine and am decently handsome and in shape, take care of my hygiene and style, have a job and car etc. but this one mental thing is really getting to me.

Any advice would be appreciated.