Shit tests do not exist. They are just situations where you feel insecure / inadequate and you project those feelings onto the women who are 'testing' you. Stop deluding yourself and be better. Shit tests don't exist when you're worth something.

Rob775533 · 2024-04-06T01:06:07+00:00

Shit tests aren't a deliberate attempt to test people. They're a subconscious thing that people do to see how well they mesh with others. If you fail, you signal that you're a bad fit. If you pass, you create more opportunities to bond and create relationships.

Guys who aren't as socially capable will often respond poorly. That's why they need help identifying and crossing these barriers.

It's not about feeling insecure. It's about further developing an individual's social skills.

Also, men shit test each other too. That's what most banter is.

catchthecum · 2024-04-06T03:05:37+00:00

Of course shit tests are real and there’s nothing wrong with women shit testing, she’s testing to see if you’re a creep or an insecure weirdo and if you’re someone she’s gonna feel safe sleeping with.

minorkeyed · 2024-04-06T01:39:13+00:00

Contrarily, shit tests are real and a projection of women's insecurities and a manipulative way to make themselves feel safe without having to reveal those insecurities to their partners.

Hookwick · 2024-04-06T04:05:07+00:00

While the term "shit test" is a pretty negative term, I don't think it's all that bad. Testing to see your emotional stability across different scenarios and contexts seems like a reasonable thing to do for women to keep themselves safe. We've got a whole subreddit here about fast tracking to sex, it only seems reasonable that women would want some safeguards of their own.

Shouldn't be that big a deal unless you're failing these tests, in which case she may be right to do it lol

3RADICATE_THEM · 2024-04-06T04:12:20+00:00

Interest tests definitely do exist

beowulf47 · 2024-04-06T05:31:14+00:00

Shit tests kinda exist kinda dont. They're basically just an attempt to have a stronger frame in an interaction, but I never look at it as if the woman is "testing" me. Usually I just look at it like they're fucking around or teasing. And like someone else pointed out, this isn't limited to man to woman interractions. Guys shit test each other all the time ("hey bro, what are you doing at the gym on a Friday night, you dont have any bitches?"). But I think the "female" shit tests get labeled as such just because men are more sensitive to them when they come from women

Poppa_Cialis · 2024-04-06T15:13:32+00:00

Happy cake day faggot

The_Core_Shadow · 2024-04-06T01:17:58+00:00

this! A thousand times this!

I never had any women try those legendary "shit tests" on me. And Ive been with dozens.

Most women do not even think that way. Like "oh, I gotta make sure he is really worth it, I better try some evil tests on him to see if he passes".

99% of times, if she asks you something you dont like, or says something that makes you feel insecure or whatever, its just her being human. Women are human. They can be assholes, awkward, weird, offensive. Often they dont even mean it. Men should stop looking for malevolent intent behind everything. Just have fun, be fun and show her you have value.

habbo311 · 2024-04-06T01:32:53+00:00

I think the phrase itself"shit test" is mentally retarded

IGetBoredSometimes23 · 2024-04-06T03:03:11+00:00

I agree. I've never been shit tested.

Grifters like to take advantage of shy men and convince them that women are all some cold calculating group of people that look for any reason to dump a guy, when really the reason the guy didn't attract the woman was because he just didn't have any rizz.

There's no test. You just need to know how to talk to women.

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