Women really don't like it when they're treated like equals

wardenferry419 · 2024-04-14T18:02:15+00:00

If chivalry is dead; it is because men were given no reason to keep it alive.

Homeskillet359 · 2024-04-14T20:00:36+00:00

She wants men to give up their seats, but I bet there's a dozen women there taking up two or more seats with purses and bags.

Cfwydirk · 2024-04-14T18:09:51+00:00

I am 68. Last year I was on the light rail going to the park and ride from a NFL game. None of the under 30 women offered me a seat.

Not that I care but, I thought women wanted equality. Maybe I’m just not in touch with my feminine side.

DevilishRogue · 2024-04-14T19:28:23+00:00

When you're used to privilege, equality feels like oppression.

wanttostaygottogo · 2024-04-14T19:52:20+00:00

If chivalry is dead it is because you killed it lady.

thechill_fokker · 2024-04-14T21:43:12+00:00

I grew up in the south east opened doors for everyone guys and girls, always say thank you, etc. At 19 I moved to Connecticut. I went to a restaurant and held the door open for a couple of girls and got called a bitch, sexist pig, All I did was hold it open as they came in behind me. Chivalry died for me that day.

MrMelbourne · 2024-04-15T01:20:08+00:00

Schrödinger's feminism: a woman is simultaneously strong, independent and empowered and also an appressed victim; until something happens. Then she chooses which state benefits her the most and behaves accordingly.

shmelli13 · 2024-04-14T17:44:05+00:00

Here's my take on that as a woman. Chivalry is earned. If I want to be treated like a lady, I have to act like one. If I act like a jerk, I can't be surprised when I'm treated like a jerk.

I do not expect men to open doors for me or give up their seats because I know that too often that's met with hate. Women can't tell men they are being disrespectful or misogynistic for those things for decades and then expect to receive that treatment. Men have been dragged along on this with no say and women have been awful about it.

If a man does something like this for me I make sure to thank him, but I do not expect it to happen.

XCtrlAltDefeatX · 2024-04-14T17:45:11+00:00

They want all the rights of a man without any of the responsibilities or accountability of a man. It was never about equality.

woodquest · 2024-04-14T17:43:05+00:00

Wanting to eat the cake and have it too, just like little children

Aronacus · 2024-04-14T18:01:45+00:00

This mindset is why men are walking away.

I've never had a man scream at me for holding a door for them. I have had a woman, though.

Men want peace. The more women said "give us this little bit" we gave.

Now, masculinity is toxic, but when a crazed lunatic starts punching random women. Men are told to step up.. but, that kind of masculinity, that era has been stomped out. You wanted softer men, you got it.

gjvf · 2024-04-14T19:30:10+00:00

They've offically changed the word from equality to empowerment.

Secret-Asian-Man-76 · 2024-04-15T02:18:31+00:00

And this is why the MGTOW movement is alive and well. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. It's a lose/lose situation for men, so many are just washing their hands of the whole thing and choosing peace of mind in solitude.

smallerthings · 2024-04-14T20:15:18+00:00

I used to take the train, a long commute, after very long days on my feet.

If I was sitting, I wasn't getting up. If sitting down is that important to you then wait for the next train.

badgersruse · 2024-04-14T18:57:47+00:00

I once read 'we will all be equal when it's not 'women and children first' on a sinking ship. Til then something isn't right.

05hastros · 2024-04-14T19:48:51+00:00

" Chivalry is dead..and women killed it" - Dave Chapelle

ButWhatOfGlen · 2024-04-14T18:12:00+00:00

We need to ignore women completely for a while. Don't listen to them, don't respond to the shit they write.

They've been given way too much agency. Look what they've done with it.

otackle72 · 2024-04-14T17:44:36+00:00

Drizzle drizzle

NameIs-Already-Taken · 2024-04-14T19:52:40+00:00

Feminism is very easy to understand. They consider the differences between men and women to be a buffet from which they can choose the items they like. Standing when others are sitting is not one they want, so then they complain about men not being chivalrous.

Red77777777 · 2024-04-14T20:25:14+00:00

Well I experience that if you stand up for a woman that you are looked at strangely by that same woman and told that it is misplaced chivalry and who you are, other than a patriach of a dick. So the Young men of today do not stand up for women anymore

Metraxis · 2024-04-15T00:59:04+00:00

Even social contacts require consideration on both sides.
Toxic masculinity is not a thing men do. It is a thing that women think.

Imoldok · 2024-04-14T18:21:35+00:00

If masculinity is toxic then you get the avoidant men , treat a man well and that is how he responds. Why bother being chivalrous in this day and age when it is just seen as an affront or weakness ? The culture has been forced changed by the female, let them endure the results of this it is the fruits of their work.

PoliteCanadian2 · 2024-04-14T20:08:18+00:00

I’ve been saying this for awhile. Women want equality until they realize that means they have to kill that bug or do many other shitty jobs. Then the Princess Equality kicks in ‘I only want to be equal when it’s easy’.

SlothinaHammock · 2024-04-14T21:54:04+00:00

Chivalry was a scam all along.

bIuemickey · 2024-04-15T04:38:33+00:00

In the Middle Ages, chivalry was a set of rules for knights. They were expected to show courage, honor, courtesy, generosity, respect and to show gallantry towards women.

This is a pretty good example of how patriarchy has been throughout history, for the most part.

Men were expected to be the one who had to work and fight to protect his family. Feminists today have distorted history to make it seem like women were held captive as sex slaves, maids, and caregivers who were constantly terrified and not allowed to speak.

realdjjmc · 2024-04-14T21:13:01+00:00

When 50% of garbage collectors, brick layers, landscapers, miners and oil field workers are women - then we can open a conversation about equal pay.

Smitty1017 · 2024-04-15T02:49:36+00:00

I don't get up for anyone who isn't old, injured/disabled, or pregnant and never have.

shnukms · 2024-04-14T23:18:55+00:00

equality's a bitch sometimes

MaddestChadLad · 2024-04-15T11:50:41+00:00

Toxic masculinity doesn't exist, just toxic people.

Duchat · 2024-04-14T19:39:11+00:00

When you’re accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.

Cfwydirk · 2024-04-14T18:17:17+00:00

If…..the video showed an older or infirm woman or man but…. it showed a healthy 30 year old standing.

lord_buff74 · 2024-04-15T00:39:21+00:00

The Code of Chivalry can be summarized in ten "commandments":

Believe the Church's teachings and observe all the Church's directions.
Defend the Church.
Respect and defend all weaknesses.
Love your country.
Do not recoil before an enemy. A single coward could discourage an entire army. Even if the knights knew death was near, they would rather die fighting than show weakness
Show no mercy to the Infidel. Do not hesitate to make war with them.
Perform all duties that agree with the laws of God.
Never lie or go back on one's word.
Be generous to everyone.
Always and everywhere be right and good against evil and injustice

Nothing in there about standing for a woman, unless that is a wekaness

Freedom_fam · 2024-04-15T16:38:08+00:00

Equal rights; equal lefts.

oldmanpotter · 2024-04-15T17:10:38+00:00

In the words of Dave Chappell chivalry is dead and women killed it.

rektum_expander · 2024-04-14T20:23:47+00:00

If chivalry is dead, it’s women that killed it! Maybe she should focus on becoming a lady I WOULD give my seat up for.

MrAnalogies · 2024-04-15T04:47:10+00:00

They really don't want equality. Anytime you have a serious discussion breaking down the way society would ACTUALLY be with real equality, 99% of them disagree. Look how quickly some of the staunchest feminists still expect men to pay for dates and protect them if something crazy happens.

_darksoul89 · 2024-04-14T18:14:21+00:00

Unless a person is carrying a baby, visibly pregnant, disabled or elder, nobody should feel the need to give up their seat for them.

PedroM0ralles · 2024-04-15T11:05:24+00:00

Says the woman who will complain about not being treated equally.

Open the door for 1 wrong woman, and you will not open the door for another female.

I've been accosted for opening a door for a female. I don't need to be botched at by some lady because I treated her like a lady instead of treating her like a man.

StuJayBee · 2024-04-15T13:01:41+00:00

I wonder what would happen if I gave up my seat but said something like “Men are stronger! This proves it! Take my seat while I prove that men are stronger.”

ketsa3 · 2024-04-16T13:27:51+00:00

The only reason I would give my seat to a woman is if she's disabled or an old granma ... like I would for Men.

dwitchagi · 2024-04-14T19:02:42+00:00

Sure, if you are 20+ years my senior, disabled, or pregnant. I have shit knees since I was like 20, so I’d prefer to sit.

BlackCatAristocrat · 2024-04-15T13:12:48+00:00

Three types of women. Women who would have fought for feminism. Women who were fine with the status quo. Women who wanted less than the status quo. We don't know which one this woman is

Likherpusisaur · 2024-04-15T21:30:46+00:00

Makes you wonder why she couldn't just ask one of her "Sist'tahs" to offer her one of their seats instead? You know... for the sake of "female solidarity" and all. Right?

KidsInNeed · 2024-04-15T00:49:38+00:00

As a woman, I hate these type of videos. Nobody is entitled to give you their seat. I don’t know where this entitlement comes from with public transportation. My opinion is, IF you want, give up your seat to old people, people with a disability, and mom with children. Those are the only people I would personally give my seat up for, everybody else can stand.

surfinsmiley · 2024-04-14T23:05:12+00:00

Because feminism is the nuclear holocaust.

pwishall · 2024-04-15T01:44:27+00:00

Instead of promoting "toxic masculinity", I'd call her indignantly expecting a man to give up his seat for her "toxic feminity".

psycho-mouse · 2024-04-14T20:19:13+00:00

without their consent

You’re allowed to film anybody and anything in a public place in the UK (which is where this video was taken).

2024-04-14T18:36:21+00:00

I thimk everyone is missing the public politeness we used to have right now

M_Salvatar · 2024-04-14T22:59:12+00:00

No such thing as toxic masculinity. Masculinity is just masculinity, those who dislike any aspects or traits of it, can go fck a powersaw.

sinixis · 2024-04-15T00:57:44+00:00

As I tell my wife, yes food and sex…but also TV

cabdybar · 2024-04-15T14:10:22+00:00

Chivalry is dead because women left the kitchen.

Idkgirlies · 2024-09-18T13:32:46+00:00

Yeah I really don’t like it when they use feminism as an excuse for stuff like this because it should be about equality. Sometimes, I think when it comes to more physical stuff (like standing instead of sitting down on a subway), society tends to forget that men also get fucking tired. The only times I think both genders should give up their seat is for a pregnant woman, elderly person, and person with some sort of disability that needs the seat.

ChemicalSymphony · 2024-04-15T01:42:47+00:00

FYI you don't need someone's consent to film or photograph them in a public place.

Not siding with her or anything just something people need to know that most seem misinformed about.

Own_Hospital_1463 · 2024-04-15T03:25:15+00:00

It's really funny when people fall for ragebait like this.

Benefit-Remarkable · 2024-04-15T00:33:52+00:00

Pretty sure this tweet is just rage bait. Most women don’t act like this or have such expectations. I take the train every day and not once has a girl bitched at me for not giving up my seat

ryansteven3104 · 2024-04-14T17:44:14+00:00

You didn't need consent from someone to film them. That's why they call it public.

2024-04-14T18:01:22+00:00

Don't get baited by advertisements; and definitely don't repost them. That's literally ai generated to elicit a response from you.

Naps_in_sunshine · 2024-04-14T18:31:33+00:00

I am female - I actually really like it when men don’t offer their seat / open the door for me / whatever other thing counts as chivalry. It signposts to me that they don’t see me as beneath them.

Or that they’re a dick. But either way, I find it patronising to be treated as some sort of inept human being who can’t stand or possibly manage to open a big heavy door by myself.

glucoseintolerant · 2024-04-15T05:57:17+00:00

You know you have no right to privacy in public… so “ filming without consent “ just makes op seem like a bit of an incel. Actually now that I read the post again. Op is 100% an incel. It’s okay bro. You will find love one day

No_Tax3265 · 2024-04-16T20:31:41+00:00

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chris95x8 · 2024-04-14T19:25:22+00:00

You can't make this generalised a statement based on Twitter comments. It's Twitter...

Title	Women really don't like it when they're treated like equals
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Date	April 14, 2024 5:30 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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