Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date with

Silverthrone921 · 2024-05-07T14:51:26+00:00

No girl is a 10/10. Even if they are really hot there's a very high chance they have bad personality. The angel you are talking about is an 'ideal' projection of her in your head. You have to realise that and make peace with it. If you are stuck thinking about the life you could have had with a certain girl or girls then this probably means that you are unhappy in you life, focus on things that really matter in life: your passions. Let me suggest the book "The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck" By Mark Manson

Any_Vacation8988 · 2024-05-07T13:26:14+00:00

She probably wanted some pipe and you didnt deliver

Electronic_Umpire893 · 2024-05-07T15:46:26+00:00

As a romantic, this is the mindset that people are missing: To allow themselves to fall in love and imagine a prospective future with a stranger. As a man in the modern world, you're crazy to fall in love with a girl you only know through text, a short cafe date, and walk. People nowadays have a lot of relationship history and have outlandish expectations due to social media and propaganda. There's a reason why people say that a relationship doesn't start past the honeymoon phase(3 months), and it's because people are so focused on a perfect image that they are unwilling to enjoy the moment. I love that you have the mindset you do, but in the current world you're going to experience more pain than anything else.

vigilanting · 2024-05-07T11:45:09+00:00

Can you elaborate on how you met this girl and in what ways you fumbled the date? If you give these details it will be easier to give advice.

Tatleman68 · 2024-05-07T12:56:09+00:00

This is going to sound cold as well, but you should move on my friend. Clearlt whether or not she is telling the real reason, but she clearly don't want to do anything with you anymore

ImpressiveGrocery959 · 2024-05-07T20:33:01+00:00

Don’t put people on a pedestal

ChoiceTank · 2024-05-08T07:34:18+00:00

You didn’t fumble anything cuz you never had a chance in the first place. You sound insecure and extremely needy bro.

Unless you start actively working on your personal growth it will happen again over and over

annoyinover · 2024-05-08T02:24:13+00:00

Wait so how did you end up fumbling it

cemj86 · 2024-05-07T21:51:27+00:00

Date more women. I can't think of a better way but to have an abundance.

_aoiv_ · 2024-05-09T03:47:52+00:00

Hey first off relax man, i know this is simply said but shes only a woman. She eats, sleeps and shits like you. Second, in my opinion its normal to fall in love. Ive fallen in love several times and understand i always will. But, being in love is just a feeling. Look at it and let it flow but don't obsess on it and for damn sure don't show it, its like a superpower because women always want to make you show you're in love, its like a trophy to them.

Available_Bass9725 · 2024-05-07T14:16:45+00:00

A man only ever truly loves once in his life. I still love the girl from 2018-2021 that I kissed. She was a redhead with a perfect figure, no woman will never compare with her. Still you can always turn off the light with an uglier and thus more available and have sex imagining it's her.

Title	Mentally stuck on ever girl I go on a date with
Author	domdomdom333
Upvotes	11
Comments	43
Date	May 7, 2024 11:20 AM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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