There have been a ton of posts on 'How to raise men' to be ___ or not be ___.
Assuming your socialization strategy works on 80% of men.

What type of relationships should these men be having with different types of communities?

For instance,
The average man will hangout with male friends 2 times a week.
The average man will work and pay taxes to the government every year.

What does the modern average man do and get from society?

Edit: Responses:

Society
The average man will have a stable and reliable social network.
The average man will be content.
The average man will not harm anyone else.

Work
The average man will work.
The average man will not pay taxes
The average man will have a relationship with co-workers.

Parents
The average man will have a father.
The average man will have a good relationship with his parents.

Friends
The average man will have a few friends.
The average man will have some female friends.
The average man will have close friends they can confide in.

Children
The average man will care about their son.