I’d really love some advice here. I’ve been dating a recently divorced guy for 1.5 years and I’m worried this is a situationship. I’ve always been the one driving this relationship forward and at Xmas I asked him for more (I was always driving to his) and he ended it saying he couldn’t be a good boyfriend. Within a few weeks he asked to meet up and we started seeing each other again but that was 6 months ago and I still don’t know where I stand or if there were other reasons for him ending it with me. He never speaks of the future and I feel I’m making more of an effort. I know his kids will always be his priority but he talks of his ex a lot and I’m scared if I bring things up he’ll leave again. Would love some advice as to how to have the ‘chat’ or should I end things?