Why, why can’t I let this loss of family unit go. It’s been 2 years (9 months divorced) and I have a Nice woman who his interested in me and this isn’t the first one…..but the ex wife is still in my head, the mother of my children. I feel if I get into a relationship before she does,she wins. She can say to the children well daddy loves someone else now etc..Just confused how to move forward. I’m actually pretty happy on my own as stated in previous posts and would be ok single but damm I miss the family unit so much some days.