Dating

jimsmythee · 2024-06-17T15:20:43+00:00

Do what I did. Go online with the apps. Take a few pics of you doing something you like to do; Driving your car, fishing, hiking, whatever. Make sure they're RECENT pictures.

Then try to match with women that are local to you.

Any women that are on a dating site that aren't local? 100% scammers. block and ignore. You'll get loads of scammers contacting you. Any women that won't meet in person after chatting for a few days? Not even coffee or lunch or a casual dinner? They're the skittish ones -- and they're just time wasters.

I went out on a cheap date with any woman that would go out on a date with me. Most were DUDS. Between the drunks, the pill poppers, the pot heads and the princesses? Knocks out 50%. Then you have the ones that have literally no time at all. They work full time, go to school full time, and have kids. Zero time.

Then you weed out the ones with too much emotional baggage and all they're looking for is a free therapist to listen to their problems for 3 hours. Then you have the "flirt to convert" ones that feel it is their mission to bring you to their church.

It took a few years, but I did meet Wife Version 2.0 online.

upvotersfortruth · 2024-06-17T04:44:44+00:00

Rejection is a badge of honor, not shame. Aim high.

DaddyNoBux · 2024-06-16T20:14:03+00:00

Level up your wardrobe. You’re likely coming out of a divorce with dress sense that would make Ernest P Worrell point at you and laugh. Plenty of YouTube channels to get the ball rolling. ZZ Top were right. Every girl is crazy about a sharp dressed man.

Invest in some quality colognes.

Start a skin care routine. Your skin likely resembles Clint Eastwood’s scrotum after years of neglect because you were too busy trying to make your ex ‘happy’ instead of taking care of yourself.

Be playful when communicating with women. DO NOT TRAUMA DUMP. Nothing dries up a vagina more than a man bitching about his ex.

Try and get a few chicks on rotation. This means you won’t be investing all your efforts in one who is likely to ghost you at some point. Always have a fall back plan. A man with options is a man who cares less and we all know that he who cares least, wins

Dangerous_Item_6879 · 2024-06-16T17:44:40+00:00

Start with the following books:

No more Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover

Models by Mark Manson.

The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi (a little over the top in the red pill direction but still a worthwhile read).

The way of the superior man by David Deida

throwaway83759372 · 2024-06-16T17:00:01+00:00

Have a good sense of the things that went wrong last time and be unapologetic in stating your needs up front with anyone you’re seriously considering.

Had a dead bedroom? Make clear how important sex is to you and in what you need that to look like in a relationship.

Ex wife was nagging or judgmental? Make a point to highlight it you need someone who is with you for you and not trying to change you.

Etc etc.

SelectionNo3078 · 2024-06-16T16:57:44+00:00

I hate this dude but…

https://youtu.be/UFdvCyKemAw?si=pssMsiD7PiH-AFJs

Title	Dating
Author	justme4556
Upvotes	6
Comments	14
Date	June 16, 2024 4:43 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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