How does your approach to meeting women change when you're only looking for something casual and non-exclusive?

IamWisdom · 2024-08-06T02:54:35+00:00

Absolutely. Give way fewer fucks and gets you laid way easier. Saying it tho is basically telling them that you don't want to pump their pussy up by seducing then first.

McPigg · 2024-08-06T21:37:32+00:00

Giving away your cards like that is just bad game, also women rarely ask in thw beginning, if so just keep it vague or accuse her of falling in love already

Incarnate24 · 2024-08-06T22:24:51+00:00

I say I’m always casual first but open to LTR with the right connection. It’s completely true & sets the expectation that we won’t be committed just because we fuck

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-08-06T03:44:42+00:00

What are the odds whenever you say that upfront? I’m intrigued because I never say it upfront.

MrAnonPoster · 2024-08-06T11:00:39+00:00

Casual sex is a massive liability. Your looks are the asset. If they say "no" when you mention casual, your liabilities are higher than the asset.

No-Preference8767 · 2024-08-06T06:22:14+00:00

Aside from lying or being a f*ckboy, is there a way to increase the likelihood of finding a casual relationship?

You can look for promiscuous women. They're harder to identify but usually they'll be comfortable around men , more assertive and maybe on the more alt side in terms of dressing.

You can learn dirty talk and seduction but in practice the opportunities won't come up too often. It helps tho

you can go for poly / ethically non monogamous people to increase your odds as well. You can lead with sex and also talk to them like regular people and hangout if you want. They don't have much slut shame. With normies , I've found ( my experience) that they're very anxious of the idea of committing to sex and will do anything to avoid taking responsibility of engaging in just sex. Up to and including drinking alcohol, lying about their intentions when coming over ( " were not having sex tonight I'm just coming over to hangout " ) , and asking for motivation from me in either verbal form or picture form .

And finally you can use more pictures based hookup friendly online dating apps . If you make your profile casual friendly , youd be surprised how much a bit of small talk helps.

epimpstyle · 2024-08-06T10:16:05+00:00

While many guys lie about wanting a serious relationship to get sex,

Honestly, only a psycho girl will ask you if you want a serious relationship, who does that? Seriously! Is there a contract between you and her? Are you legally obligated to stay with her if you tell her you want a serious relationship?

No, my friend! The "game" is about telling her "lies" by faking who you are, showing her that you are the most interesting/funny/cool guy on the planet, not explicitly telling her: "I want a serious relationship".... If you do, you are also a psycho, no offense! Nobody is doing this.

Spiritual_Word_7288 · 2024-08-06T10:23:42+00:00

Hey, i help men win the dating game and i will give you my take on it.
The ONE AND ONLY answer is- it doesnt change.
You need to understand that there is a CORRECT way to flirt. You dont change your flirting way when you want casual and change it back when you want Exclusive. Flirting is being confidence, assertive, funny, humoristic, also talking about sexual things without embarassment, its teasing her, and much more.
The only thing that may change is that you can put a bit more effort about pursuing her after you get the number.
That means you may put more thought behind dates and be a bit more roamntic but to be honest even if you want to just get laid you should do those, because it would raise your chances.
Feel free to follow my instagram page (link in profile) where i post daily on gaining confidence, becoming more assertive, flirting the correct way, and win the dating game.

Title	How does your approach to meeting women change when you're only looking for something casual and non-exclusive?
Author	7inchesonastik
Upvotes	14
Comments	36
Date	August 6, 2024 2:20 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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