Light blub moment

Hog-Switchkey · 2024-09-20T01:55:00+00:00

My Ex told me she was going out of town to go shopping. But she was lying. She had an appointment with a cosmetic surgeon. She paid him $2,000.00 for a down payment (non refundable) with the total cost of over $8,000.00. She got her "Facelift" and years later I couldn't tell a difference. This was after breast implants, liposuction on her hips and legs, vaginaplasty, Botox injections, tattooed eyeliner, many bottles of fat burners and anti-aging pills ( $150.00 a month). What a fuckin waste of money! I'm free now!!!!!!

rsmiley77 · 2024-09-19T22:41:23+00:00

My ex never hardly cleaned house unless someone was coming by. She started cleaning the house all of a sudden to the point my oldest daughter (10 at the time) and I were jokingly asking who was coming by a couple of days when the house was all of a sudden super clean. While we joked I knew something was up….

Came home early one day that week to my suspicions being realized. A random car in my driveway (I knew who it belonged to). I pulled up. Went to front door to be as quiet as possible. Pulled out my camera and started filming. They’d left the front door cracked so I walked in silently. There she was with some chick that looked like a dude sitting naked in bed with her. Chick had brought her freaking dog to my house too. Anyways I got video and walked out. Any guilt I had up until that point was left behind in that bedroom. It’s been nothing more than business since that day.

SoloUnit2020 · 2024-09-19T18:42:30+00:00

I initiated the divorce, but I think that it's fair to say I was miserable for a long time before I did. My lightbulb moment when I realized I would be better off without her was when I found many amazing relationships I had were deteriorating. Then she would drip feed me negative things people were saying during arguments. I realized she was taking all of our issues outside of our marriage. Having your life discrete is a peace that is unmatched.

pikohina · 2024-09-19T16:00:14+00:00

Realizing she’s off my budget for good (sans alimony). My biggest stress in life was seeing we had $0 left each month after paying bills. Her financial aloofness brought me so much pain. Now I smile each time I realize how much I save each month.

Title	Light blub moment
Author	Miserable_Ad_1172
Upvotes	6
Comments	15
Date	September 19, 2024 3:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/Divorce_Men
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