It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified

DrRonnieJamesDO · 2024-10-07T19:56:25+00:00

All very true. Next to safety, I'd add trust. Trust and safety are the bedrock of most all human relationships. The trust things extends to being honest, reliable and on time, doing what you'll say you'll do, etc

epimpstyle · 2024-10-07T14:25:03+00:00

Women value safety.

Yes, that's why some of them carry pepper spray in their purse.

Don’t play games. If you want to fuck…tell her

Well.... there are things in this world that you don't say directly because they are not okay and your example is one of them.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-10-07T17:56:03+00:00

It's even simpler than that.

Remain less interested in the girl than she is in you.

Every time a woman decides she is done with a guy or ghosts him or blocks him, the exact moment she made that decision was when he spoke or behaved in a way that expressed that his desire for her had exceeded her desire for him, and she now perceives him as not being preselected by other women and that is what trips every safety alarm in a woman's instincts.

For every time a man wondered what went wrong and couldn't figure out why the woman lost interest, this is exactly why.

TurboBallsack · 2024-10-08T05:43:13+00:00

all facts here. especially #2. I feel like everybody always hears the “work on yourself” but they don’t actually realize what it means. More than 95% of people trying to pick up women nowadays are not attractive, do not have anything going for them, and are lame.

Outrageous_Hearing26 · 2024-10-07T22:52:01+00:00

Woman here- gonna confirm this. I was attracted to a guy who was also attracted to me. Didn’t know a lot about him so tried to flirt and see if we could talk about what we were both open for. I was at least open for something short term, but probably not a ONS. If it’s not monogamous then we need to have a very practical discussion about stds. He disappeared from the conversation and proceeded to booty call me later. Straight up said that communication and comfort were important to me. Disappeared again.

He played himself 🤷‍♀️

sumimigaquatchi · 2024-10-07T17:21:00+00:00

Make her feel safe? Okay, what about the women who already judge you being a threat without any word spoken?

TuxedoPinata · 2024-10-08T05:59:50+00:00

As someone said, it is simple, but it is not easy. That is why the majority of people struggle with it. Think about it. There are actual books on seduction, and yet reading one will not help somebody except give them some pointers.

This is what fascinates me most with this. It is about unlocking a different type of perception in a way.

BurnItDownSR · 2024-10-08T16:37:15+00:00

Just because you haven't been able to quantify it doesn't mean it can't be quantified.

People have been quantifying dating and all kinds of human interactions long before Pick Up Artists, Seduction, Game, etc ever existed.

Its literally a universally recognised branch of science called PSYCHOLOGY.

Why do people like to play so dumb when it comes to dating?

Title	It’s so much simpler and can’t be quantified
Author	deathtodadbod7
Upvotes	142
Comments	33
Date	October 7, 2024 2:06 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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