Successfully avoided a pick up artist

Hi. So last night I (26F) went to a bar and walked up to a guy I thought was cute. We hit it off right away and he started talking about couple’s costumes. He brought up Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky as a couple’s costume which made me think he was using the “bombarding with sexual imagery” technique that red pill teaches men. We then danced together and he kept escalating touch (kino) until we were outside and he kept touching my hair, hands, and love handles, not all at once but escalating slowly Which made me think of kino.

I then shit tested him with a “you’re so smooth, did you learn this in a class” and he lamely responded with a “if you were my teacher what would you teach me”

This made me think that he was a pick up artist because he tried to maneuver it like pick up artists like to teach men. That and the fact that he was cute and fit and 27 — not looking to settle down and certainly not looking to settle down with me, an over 200 lb no makeup 26 year old woman.

He went to go get me water and I ended up texting my virgin friend who encouraged me to keep up my streak (I haven’t had sex with a guy since January and I want to keep it up at least until I meet my husband, God willing I get married) and so I did.

I gave him my number just in case he was serious but he said he was from out of town and only stopping in for a wedding so I’m not holding out hope.

But I didn’t sleep with him. And you know what? I feel damn proud of myself from learning from my past mistakes. F you to all my haters who say I don’t have self control, this guy was cute and into literature like me and I still kept it in.

And you also know what? Even though I may never meet my future husband it’s still worth it to not be used like someone’s tissue paper. That is worth all the world to me, and I am keeping up my celibacy streak even if I don’t get married.

Thank you to the red pill for helping me and for my friend. They really helped pull me through.