Wife filed, and we both have attorney’s. She has always wanted a separation and I did not because she wanted us to see what life would be like if we make different choices. I on the other hand feel like a separation is the time where have a plan and goals of the separation for us to work on ourselves to be a better husband and wife. Also, she wanted me to move out of the house and I keep seeing how I should never move out of the house for the best interest of the kids, even in a separation. I was ready to fight right back on the divorce but now considering asking my wife to put this all on hold and give her the separation she has always wanted. One of the main reasons she filed according to her is because it was either divorce or stay married since seperation was not an option and things haven’t been good staying married so she felt she needed to file. The more I think about it and the closer our temp hearings get closer I am having seconds thoughts. I really don’t want to lose my family. Anyone have any guidance?