Male Issues Activism

RelevantJackWhite · 2025-01-06T05:23:06+00:00

my dad and i have both helped each other get a better sense of our feelings and it's been helpful. he's realizing that working harder to curb work-related anxiety has its limits. i'm realizing that i share a lot of that anxiety and it's also not very useful to push that work off. we're both pulling each other to a healthy balance in that sense.

Unfair_Bag104 · 2025-01-06T08:01:08+00:00

Men need to stop throwing away everything they have in pursuit of a relationship that doesn’t benefit them. Stop being a simp and a people pleaser and everything will be fine

Siukslinis_acc · 2025-01-06T05:30:47+00:00

There is also an "american institute for boys and men", which focuses on research and policy development.

GuyInTenn · 2025-01-06T11:39:32+00:00

The brotherhood of Masons has been around seems like forever. My Dad and most of my uncles were Masons.

Fancy-Statistician82 · 2025-01-06T05:36:38+00:00

As a woman observing:

Community soccer and biking events seem to be important and inviting gathering spaces for boys and men. Consider coaching a city rec team (my dad did this as an assistant coach with very little background in soccer, there was good support). Elementary aged they were mixed gender, but by middle school and high school it's all boys and fathers.

He also tried out the local Lions, Elks clubs, or maybe there's a Rotary near you. In the end they weren't a good fit for him and he found a horseshoes league. Funny enough I guess you never know.

My husband was an Eagle and has stayed loosely affiliated with them, and as an AT thruhiker finds camaraderie in those clubs (certainly not entirely male, but male dominated).

For us, I think there's benefit even in just saying it's important. My dad's horseshoe league is beautifully ridiculous, they get together to eat snacks and drink beer, but they're solemnly winking, no actually serious, that no women can be near the pitch during shoes. My son can come by, but not me. I think it's very good for them.

SayuriKitsune · 2025-01-06T09:58:11+00:00

Look how many little comments this post has, this is heartbreaking but a lot of men don't want any help, or to help other men. It happened the same with men's day. All year men complaining about women's day, and men's day came and they didn't care at all

GridReXX · 2025-01-06T12:21:19+00:00

My grandfather was a Mason. I have male friends who have joined Elks lodges. And a lot of my male friends and fam are still involved in the community chapter programming of the frats they joined.

Ntm most of my male friends and male family play pick up sports throughout the week 🏀⚽️. They make lifelong friends through that.

From my vantage point, there’s plenty of male spaces and community for men who want to join and seek it out.

Finally, for those who aren’t anti-religion, church and various church groups are a great way to keep connected and fellowship with others. Even for me, I’m not religious per se, but I’d be lying if I said growing up in church and going to church occasionally now isn’t one of the EASIEST ways to be part of a community and experience mutual support within a community.

ExcelsiorState718 · 2025-01-06T14:30:34+00:00

I think men need to grow up and mature,if you live in the west what do you really have to complain about all I hear is women this women that woe is me.

Get an education get a career,start a business be an entrepreneur but whatever you do get your money up and get fit so you don't drop dead at 50 or become so obese and out of shape you can't fit in the sports car you can finally afford.

Men need to take control of their own lives and stop looking for solutions from elsewhere. Wether it be some deranged leader or sexual conquest.

I will take the modern world and feminism over what the world was like 100 years ago or even 50 years ago its a trade off progress has brought great improvements in our lives I for one don't want to have to mine coal fight buffalo or fend off native tribes even if that means I can't get a date because female standards are ridiculous,it is what it is besides there's plenty of other things to do than lay up under a woman.

But all hope isn't lost you can travel it doesn't takes six months to cross the ocean,you don't have to risk scurvy to go to another place where you'll be more desirable if your looking to marry and have children. Now some will argue that they shouldn't have to leave their country to get a wife.,well 80% of men never marry or have children,most died from disease,battle starvation wild animals workplace incidents if you're over 20 you allready beat the odds so make the most of it.

So imo men just need to man up pull their pants up put on a suit make some money find sone purpose in life besides whining and batching and yes we should together more not stab each other in the back as soon as a female comes sniffing around.

Pathosgrim · 2025-01-06T14:33:30+00:00

Don't join any groups. Work on yourself, go rogue. Let society collapse here, at least.

Innocent_boi_77 · 2025-01-06T07:41:18+00:00

1). Make the government defund all the organizations that are anti male or promote Discriminations like DEI. Make meritocracy most important again.

2). Normalize men crying (very close trusted friends) or hugging each other, do not label them as gay.

3). Young men should be taught how men transformed this world into better place. Men should feel proud of who they.

4). Support choices made by men, whether that is remaining single or going to hookers.

SoyBoyH8ter · 2025-01-06T05:25:28+00:00

Many churches and bible discussion groups are anti male and pander to females. Feminism/wokeism has been poisoning these spaces

Title	Male Issues Activism
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Date	January 6, 2025 12:27 AM UTC (1 year ago)
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