I'm asking because in my own experience i'm really having problems sometimes when i talk to women about other women. When i talk to a woman about a problem i have with a relationship with another woman it more likely then not they have trouble hearing my criticism towards them. As if they place themselves in the shoes of that other woman.

It go's so far that one time i told my female psychologist about another woman who completely betrayed my trust, ghosted me, even pretended that i was stalking her and her friends after she ghosted me and used another guy to call me and theaten me. A woman playing victim, classic. I can't explain everything but trust me for now that if i would it would be very clear that is super toxic behaviour and she was obviously doing a bad thing.

But then instead of my psychologist actually validating what happend to me by telling me something as simple like ''She did a bad thing to you.'' She keeps oddly neutral in her reaction to my story and even tells me that ''She might have had the feeling her own boundaries where crossed''.

My Point is... i'm reading things like this bias women can have and wonder as if this is yet another fucked up way how women are being toxic to me even to the point a psychologist can not even validate emotional abuse because that would mean ''Admitting another woman did something bad'' and.. OH NO... i can't do that as a woman because that means an L for all women? Or something? wtf is wrong with people?