Should I mention interest with other girls as a tactic of seduction?

FuckLeHabs · 2025-03-03T20:22:56+00:00

No , unless done extremely indirectly . Best to let her ask and wonder about these things

CoachSlyDating · 2025-03-03T20:52:58+00:00

Be indirect about it. You can mention it but only in passing. Never mention anything too detailed or romantic. Never speak negatively about an ex.

Ok-Bluebird4619 · 2025-03-03T21:25:37+00:00

No. They will move on. If they see other girls talking to you, that's a big difference. That gives social proof you are worth thinking about.

Recurringg · 2025-03-03T21:10:30+00:00

Never mention it. But, if they can see it or infer it that's great. Like when another girl comments on or likes your photo on Facebook or ig, or when you get a laugh out of the waitress, or when you're at a party and you make small talk with every girl there. You can't get caught trying to make her think about it though. If she thinks you're trying to act like a player you end up looking so bad.

Far-End470 · 2025-03-03T21:37:28+00:00

Dread works best when it’s indirect. You want a girl to hit on you while you’re with your girl. Because you’re getting social proof as well as validation from someone else.

Whereas direct dread is when you game a chick in front of your chick.

r_gui · 2025-03-03T22:18:51+00:00

Never. And I mean NEVER do that.

Entire_Bee_7648 · 2025-03-04T05:14:10+00:00

Don't. You may think it's a good idea but, dog, they will HATE you. They can be very jealous. Extremely. Even if it did work, it's not worth the collateral damage.

slice888 · 2025-03-03T21:18:16+00:00

Most are jealous and can’t handle it but they have an open relationship bio then I would.

AssistTemporary8422 · 2025-03-03T23:42:13+00:00

No the highest value thing is if other girls are interested in you but you aren't really interested in them because they don't meet your standards. Being interested in other girls implies that you didn't have the courage to ask them out or they aren't interested back which is low value. Having female friends can be high value if they are attracted to you but you aren't attracted to them.

DaygameCode · 2025-03-04T00:01:42+00:00

That only works when the woman herself sees other women all over you, and those women happen to be really hot. If you are the one brining it up, or showing off that you have women, then it doesn’t work. It’s women who have to show you off, not you showing off your women.

Robofrogg1 · 2025-03-04T14:28:02+00:00

That is literally the worst thing you could do.

Having wandering eyes in no way makes you 'high value.'. It doesn't't even mean you have options-- it just means you are a womanizer.

_SKUL_ · 2025-03-04T00:02:44+00:00

yes if she does it first

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-03-04T02:52:58+00:00

No, discretion is a virtue. Counterintuitvely, being discreet signals pre-selection.

Conscious_Yak_1002 · 2025-03-04T10:36:19+00:00

Interest, absolutely no.

Talking about female friends, sure, as long as you frame it as platonic and vague. Do it rarely, and where it make sense. Preselection works, but you need to be careful.

Beautiful-Ask-3814 · 2025-03-04T11:36:03+00:00

Only if cocky funny is your game, and if the girl is really confident. If she's even slightly insecure it won't work.

HomelessMilkman · 2025-03-04T11:38:48+00:00

making me seem high-value in her eyes

The only thing that's making you seem 'high value' is whether you're actually comfortable in the situation.

What you're suggesting is one of many indications that you are not comfortable in the situation. More obvious indicators are whether you're physically tense, whether you're comfortable holding eye-contact, whether you're flinching and reactive to what's going on, whether you're voice is deep and resonant, etc.

You can't 'pretend' to be higher value than you are because of the very clear and obvious indicators of whether you can comfortably handle the situation or not. If you're comfortable, you demonstrate you have other options; if you're uncomfortable, she's not going to believe that you're actually a '10' in some other context.

Remarkable_Fan6001 · 2025-03-04T13:54:09+00:00

Lmao, don't mention it at all. She needs to assume that on her own without you mentioning it tbh.

Covfefetarian · 2025-03-04T15:44:44+00:00

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-03-04T18:13:16+00:00

No. Don't play games, lie, or try to be manipulative.

MysteryLiezer · 2025-03-05T02:39:43+00:00

If you’re ALREADY preselected, then there will be NOTHING to gain from having to mention things that would highlight this!

If you weren’t already preselected, then nothing you say will change that..

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It’s the same with being wealthy!

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If it’s already obvious, then WHY mention it?

Likewise, if it ISN’T already obvious, then informing her will do nothing but make her realize that she simply couldn’t tell…

Valravn6666 · 2025-03-05T14:03:22+00:00

No! A magician never reveals his tricks to the masses. Let them wonder about you and remain the enigma.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-03-06T18:20:17+00:00

Typically no. Girls can just sense if you get other girls or not. So you don’t need to advertise it. I’d argue it makes it worse

Title	Should I mention interest with other girls as a tactic of seduction?
Author	GameDev2021
Upvotes	18
Comments	24
Date	March 3, 2025 8:20 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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