Since we’re all direct here I’ll just put facts straight. Sorry for the clickbait title.

Im a 25 year old 6’1 Asian guy, with decent income (not a huge lot just decent). I’m a software engineer, so at work, I’m surrounded by male nerds in my company, and I was one of them. But now I go to gym and look rather fit, and I can get Asian and K-pop obsessed Latina/Black/Indian women relatively easily.

There’s one kind, however, I’ve only been able to get once - the hot white blonds, and I’d love to get more of that. Much less white girls are into K-pop compared to other races, and those who do are usually horizontally challenged. they don’t seem to date outside their own race, except for Black men sometimes.

How do I get a taylor swift listening football watching white blonde? Do I need to act/dress a certain way, say preppy style? How to overcome this group’s aversion to dating Asian or their indifference to Asian pop culture?

One thing I think is that my look is too effeminate for American white women. Would especially love some advice from white friends in this sub, if you’re willing to help.

——- update —— This post is getting much more views than I thought. To avoid starting any fight imma delete it if it hits 20k views