She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatched

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-03-17T12:42:52+00:00

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norwegiandoggo · 2025-03-16T20:44:04+00:00

She's a scammer, criminal honey potter, some bored teen just trolling, or a prostitute.

Normal women don't propose sex on a dating app that directly and follow through with it. The alarm bells should be ringing whenever a woman begins acting like a horny man.

KaleidoscopeInner421 · 2025-03-16T20:45:54+00:00

Maybe the “fake pic” was her real pic and was testing you to see if you liked the actual fake pic more than her real pic

Or a girl whose seeking validation and attention to see if she’s hot

Or a scammer

bannedcanceled · 2025-03-16T21:07:46+00:00

Ive had so many girls tell me they want to hage sex tonight then disappear on dating apps they are just bored. Think nothing of it

Jtenka · 2025-03-16T21:28:16+00:00

Best case scenario, you avoided a nut case.

Worst case scenario, you avoided a bumming up an alley somewhere.

Be glad for it.

succesful333 · 2025-03-16T20:50:43+00:00

That’s weird maybe a set up a man pretending to b a woman idk

GaryOak7 · 2025-03-16T22:16:00+00:00

Shit test and you failed

Mofis · 2025-03-16T21:35:07+00:00

Should’ve said how do I know the real pic isn’t another fake pic?

Crazy_Venus_Crew · 2025-03-16T21:42:46+00:00

lol this happens to me all the time. I find even most women who put down the “short term fun” flair tag on Tinder end up unmatching very quickly. Sometimes they will even send the first message, then unmatch before I even get to read it!

Sameehhh · 2025-03-17T08:45:57+00:00

I Think you were talking to a dude my guy

cruel_frames · 2025-03-17T09:33:24+00:00

Women that openly want sex, wouldn't use their real photo. Especially older women that have reputation to lose.

I think she was genuine, she told you what she wanted, but you kept asking questions and she left for another one that agreed faster

That being said, I personally wouldn't bother taking any risk with cases like that.

Conscious_Yak_1002 · 2025-03-17T10:27:57+00:00

I laughed and said oh that's why the fake pic, what's the catch?

It was a bad call. She was playing with you, and you pull the rug under the table. If she is playing, play as well. Mirror.

Better wording in my opinion would be "You know what you want, you are very confident woman" (empty flattery), or "I like a bit of mystery".

tenclowns · 2025-03-16T23:04:43+00:00

you put attention towards her asking for sex. women are very weary towards sexual shame and dont want to be seen as easy or slutty. a joke is not good response, and definitely not putting attention to her sexual shame as a woman. im pretty sure this is the reason if she was for real and you lost out

much better suggesting you could help her out without saying just outright yes. like "maybe i can help with that" or "im looking for something like that myself". there are surely better responses than this, but they are miles better than your response

reechees · 2025-03-17T01:01:18+00:00

I doubt it’s a shit test, or a scammer. But instead you just were just too much to deal with bringing up the fake pic again after she disappeared when you seemed bothered.

Title	She said she wanted sex, I responded, she unmatched
Author	8rpm
Upvotes	25
Comments	39
Date	March 16, 2025 8:41 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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