For no particular reason, just like to share: my divorce has just been approved by the court last week, and yesterday it was registered with the municipality.

We still live together, but the finish line is in sight: she'll get an extra mortgage to buy me out of the apartment (wih, I'll get one too and move out to something I am yet to find and buy.

All the financials are defined - after all the amounts are in, I'll end up payin her EUR 40k extra, which is not a huge amount to either of us. No spousal support, no child support.

We have a 5yo kid, and we settled on 50/50 parenting with equal authority and equal contribution, it's all written down into a parenting plan.

I am 46, she is 36, for the context.