Is it common to date multiple people at once before becoming exclusive?

becomesharp · 2025-04-07T21:41:08+00:00

Yes, and in most cases It's relatively ideal even if there's some stigma around it. Would you buy a house without looking at multiple options?

Just be honest with the women and don't lie to them and you'll be okay.

Western_Secretary284 · 2025-04-07T22:22:25+00:00

It is for people with options. Those who know their options are limited or have an ulterior motive like needing papers may push exclusivity quickly.

Affectionate-Ant4888 · 2025-04-09T02:37:06+00:00

its the path of the unnaturals lol ; women nowdays do the same anyway ;

ice_man085 · 2025-04-09T06:16:26+00:00

Depends on the culture. Have read many times that this should be the norm for people in the US. From European/Austrian point of view it sounds rather uncommon.

Federal-Mulberry-907 · 2025-04-07T21:17:02+00:00

Not if you have a life

saryiahan · 2025-04-07T21:20:39+00:00

Depends. For me I had four woman in my wheel house before i decided it was the 5th I liked. Some people can find it taxing but it was nice playing the field. Especially when I wanted to get laid.

mmmeadi · 2025-04-08T14:43:43+00:00

Depends. For an average guy? Probably not.

But I guarantee all the women you know are.

321sleep · 2025-04-09T14:52:36+00:00

Sure. Just watch out for those STI’s. I’m not joking.

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-04-08T06:19:30+00:00

IMO it’s the best way to start

MineDesperate2920 · 2025-04-08T06:19:34+00:00

IMO it’s the best way to start

GlockHolliday32 · 2025-04-08T12:35:42+00:00

FriendlyWrenChilling · 2025-04-09T02:13:01+00:00

At the beginning when you dont know what you want, yes. But if you have a clear understanding of what you want, if you manage to find that gem, you wont be interested in other girls for that moment being.

Title	Is it common to date multiple people at once before becoming exclusive?
Author	NBMV0420
Upvotes	31
Comments	24
Date	April 7, 2025 9:13 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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