Wife wants a divorce, being hostile and toxic. Going on now 3 months. At the beginning I wanted counselling and she didn’t. She eventually agreed saying she would go to get agreement how to tell the children as this was a bone of contention. I just wanted to get her in front of a skilled therapist in the hope she would see the light.

We are awaiting an appointment for couples therapy but I have a suspicion she won’t go.

Having been deeply saddened by this whole saga and wanting to reconcile because I loved her and for the children things have now turned.

Time has marched on, her horrible behaviour to me has taken its toll. I’m now firmly at the point that I myself want nothing to do with her.

If she came to me begging I don’t think I could stop the process.