I’m a mid twenties dude who’s been traveling around Europe. I’ve been to a lot of the big party cities that are hyped about. I find in the clubs that no girls are wanting to dance with me. Of note— I live in the US and go on ~1 date a month after a lot of swiping. I also wear a durag style turban so maybe that’s “dooming” me but it really does look more like a durag than anything else.

To be fair, I don’t really like start a convo but I dance around them and then judge by their body language if they’re vibing or not, and when I see that they’re not, I move on.

I do actually kinda enjoy clubbing but it’s kind of a blow to your self confidence when you see people making out left right and center, and you get no action.

So how do I go about improving my club game from these experiences in the field? Is this a matter of it just sucking to suck? Going clubbing like this has actually hurt my self confidence far more than I was hoping for it to help