How to pull a girl when ur alone

HistorianOk2573 · 2025-05-16T17:31:30+00:00

Girls only get comfortable around guys who are comfortable in their own skin. If you feel self-concious or uncomfortable about being alone, that vibe will be projected and girls will sense it making them uncomfortable.

If you just own it, and are completely confident with the fact that you are alone, without feeling the need to justify yourself, they will be at ease.

So it's all about your vibe. If girls test you about being alone and you immediately become defensive, that's what will turn them off. If girls don't test you about it, but you still expect them to bring it up like it's a bad thing they will also feel that there is something off about you.

Women can sense your discomfort and that's what creeps them out or makes them uneasy about you. Whether you are alone or not, it's not the problem.

If a woman says: "It's kinda weird that you are alone"

What you need to say sarcastically is: "Yeah I think going out alone should be made illegal from now on" or "I know, wild concept, being comfortable with your own company. Shocking, isn’t it?", or "Super weird, in fact i dont think anyone should go out alone ever again for the rest of their lives".

This is the right attitude, not acting defensive and instead ridiculing her argument with humor.

ironcloudordeal · 2025-05-16T16:46:42+00:00

What helps me when I'm out alone is talking to random strangers like cashiers, security guards, or complimenting some random person on the street and making a quick conversation with them. This helps you build momentum and you'd actually feel more social & confident after talking to at least 2 random strangers. Once you feel pretty social after these interactions, it'll be less difficult for you to talk to a random girl. Try it out next time, it will help you.

therealwoujo · 2025-05-16T16:38:08+00:00

Why do you need friends around? Just do it.

sefan78 · 2025-05-16T18:04:36+00:00

Bro I find it easier when I’m alone lol. When I daygame with friends, it feels awkward as hell cuz my friends are just there waiting for me while I be talking to the girl.

liftingnstuff · 2025-05-16T16:20:54+00:00

Pick busier venues. Going out solo is really only an issue if its such a small venue that girls will see you alone in between approaches or if they can tell you're just doing laps around the venue doing approaches.

If you feel you need to, you can start the night early looking for a mixed or mostly male friend group to befriend/adopt you as a group of people you can touch base with. Have good energy and maybe make up a story about how you were supposed to hang out with your boy but his girlfriend has him by the nuts and made him stay in but you still wanted to party.

MidnightCookies76 · 2025-05-16T18:55:55+00:00

Nah just ask her out. I’m a huge nerd so being asked out at a coffee shop, a bookstore, comiccons, board game stores, events, stuff like that is cool. You sound youngish, it takes practice.

Case in point: when I was in grad school, I was in a coffee shop trying to study. The seat across the corner from me was empty. A nice fellow offered to throw my cup away and then sat down at that corner seat. Alls I asked was “are you a grad student?” (I could tell by how we dressed 😂). And we talked for like 3 hours after that! He did ask me to a talk on chaos theory (grad students are the worst lols) but I had to decline. 😭 I still think about that. We never dated but I sure wanted to. But we study together for several times during the quarter. 🥹 after graduation he took me out for my birthday and it was legit an 8 hour date. I should have used my feminine wiles and made a move. 🤦🏽‍♀️ we had so much in common and I had never met a man like him since. He was absolutely the one who got away and I will always think of him fondly. 😭 So you really never know. That innocuous question ended up starting a friendship.

Fun_Character1888 · 2025-05-16T20:18:27+00:00

I’ve done it plenty of times bro just get out of your own way, stop overthinking, and make it happen.

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-05-17T00:10:53+00:00

This trick:

https://i.imgur.com/g8eGlq1.jpeg

TypeOPositive- · 2025-05-16T15:43:08+00:00

When you understand that you are projecting your own insecurities onto women and you are imagining you know what they are thinking about you and it’s all wrong.

Only_Ad8049 · 2025-05-16T21:41:01+00:00

I found that it's easier to do alone, but I never had friends that were good wing men.

Nabbzi · 2025-05-16T18:12:29+00:00

You are not wrong about stigma going solo to the nightlife. I do it sometime and just meet girls at the bar or at the dancefloor. Sometime they ask why Im alone I usually say I had some drinks with co workers earlier and they all went home and I felt continuing the nightlife enjoyment. Its an innocent white lie that works.

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-05-17T00:07:45+00:00

"Children, behave"
That's what they say when we're together
"And watch how you play"
They don't understand

And so we're running just as fast as we can
Holding on to one another's hand
Trying to get away into the night
And then you put your arms around me
As we tumble to the ground and then you say

I think we're alone now
There doesn't seem to be anyone around
I think we're alone now
The beating of our hearts is the only sound

Look at the way
We gotta hide what we're doing
'Cause what would they say
If they ever knew

And so we're running just as fast as we can
Holding on to one another's hand
Trying to get away into the night
And then you put your arms around me
As we tumble to the ground and then you say

I think we're alone now
There doesn't seem to be anyone around
I think we're alone now
The beating of our hearts is the only sound

I think we're alone now
There doesn't seem to be anyone around
I think we're alone now
The beating of our hearts is the only sound
I think we're alone now
There doesn't seem to be anyone around
I think we're alone now

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w6Q3mHyzn78&pp=ygUXaSB0aGluayB3ZSdyZSBhbG9uZSBub3c%3D

certified_cringe_ · 2025-05-17T01:28:25+00:00

I feel better when alone, in a group is the issue for me.

No-Wolverine7793 · 2025-05-17T13:38:20+00:00

Just talk to em worse thing that could happen is she could reject ya if that's the case then move on to the next one

Prestigious_Water336 · 2025-05-17T08:06:03+00:00

I've never had any problems pulling alone.

You just ask the classic question in a slow sensual tone, "west are you don't after this?" And if she says nothing that means she's interested/DTF. You say something like "I'd love to show you my house/room/apartment." It's pretty easy, don't overthink it.

No_Firefighter_8088 · 2025-05-17T20:12:06+00:00

I am 32 years old and I've never had a girlfriend. I've never even had a date. I've never had a kiss. Me growing up as a kid I was always the chubby kid that people used to make fun of. The girls used to laugh at me. They used to make fun of me. Fast forward to today. I've been told that I'm handsome and I don't know how to deal with that because I guess I have some childhood trauma. I see women I don't even know what to say. I don't approach women. Do I hate them? No I don't because I don't hate anyone but I just know that I'm going to be alone for the rest of my life and I've accepted it

Title	How to pull a girl when ur alone
Author	Used-Warning-268
Upvotes	54
Comments	27
Date	May 16, 2025 3:18 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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