Angry and tired of don't having sex

harmonic- · 2025-09-02T20:52:55+00:00

tbh it's pretty important to maintain compassion for yourself; dating is hard, especially coming out of a relationship. Shaming yourself or being angry is destructive and doesn't even help you change things

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-02T20:15:53+00:00

Do literally anything. You do nothing, so you spend too much time thinking about silly things. Be busy. Doesn't matter with what.

eeeest- · 2025-09-02T20:03:19+00:00

Watch this

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=tMKm25V3GTk

Matter_Still · 2025-09-02T22:31:43+00:00

After a breakup, particularly one in which the sex was frequent and fiery, when all that stops it’s not unusual to find yourself living a monastic life.

There was a time for you, perhaps not long ago when sex was as easy to come by as water. Now the faucet’s been turned off. It’s not a stretch to suggest it’s like withdrawal.

And now you’re faced with jumping through all the hoops you had to in order to have sex with your ex.

I remember thinking how sweet it was to be so damn comfortable with someone, all you had to do was wink and ask for a quickie—and then it was back to all the basics.

The confidence will return but anyone suggesting the road back is a cakewalk is not doing you any favors.

CoachSlyDating · 2025-09-03T01:18:40+00:00

take baby steps toward approaching. first learn to give quick compliments in passing. Then work your way up to full conversations with girls.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-09-02T20:18:32+00:00

Go find some "easy money" to bang. A woman you wouldn't actually date but is just good enough to sleep with. Aka below your league. This should hold you out for a few more months.

Dandys3107 · 2025-09-03T08:04:30+00:00

It's very similar to getting off drug abuse, but in your case intake was endogenic. Figure out some substitutional therapy plan. Keep improving your sexually attractive traits, work out, buy nice clothes, use good cologne, wear some new clothing accessories. Shower daily, eat healthy and tasty food. And surround yourself with people. Generally, you need to replenish your chemical factory.

jamesfalken · 2025-09-03T14:39:59+00:00

Sex with prostitution and Asian massage lady

Infamous-Metal-103 · 2025-09-04T21:33:56+00:00

Maybe don't break up with your regular sex person

Exotic_Effective4566 · 2025-09-02T20:32:36+00:00

Hey man, first off thanks for being honest. It takes guts to admit what you're feeling, especially when it’s messy and uncomfortable. You're not alone in this. A breakup, especially one that leaves you feeling disconnected and sexually frustrated, can really mess with your head.

Here’s the thing: your brain’s obsession isn’t really about sex it’s about connection, validation, and control. You’re angry because you feel powerless, and that’s totally human. But chasing sex as a fix will only deepen that frustration. What you need is to rebuild your confidence from the inside out.

Here’s what might help:

Shift the focus from sex to self-worth. You already take care of yourself and make good money that’s a solid foundation. Now work on emotional confidence: being okay with rejection, being okay with not being desired every moment. That’s real strength.
Reconnect with people without pressure. Talk to women without the goal of hooking up. Practice being present, curious, and respectful. When you stop seeing every interaction as a test of your desirability, you’ll start feeling more relaxed and ironically, more attractive.
Channel the energy. Obsession thrives in idle time. Use that energy to build something a skill, a side hustle, a fitness goal. When your life feels full, sex becomes a bonus, not a desperate need.
Therapy helps. If the anger and obsession feel overwhelming, talking to a professional can help you untangle it. No shame in that it’s like hiring a coach for your mental game.

You’re not broken. You’re just in a rough patch. And the fact that you’re self-aware enough to ask for advice means you’re already on your way out of it.

notanewbiedude · 2025-09-02T20:54:00+00:00

Where did you learn English?

laced1 · 2025-09-03T21:58:09+00:00

Gonna suck but you have to jack off before you go approaching. I know it sounds counter intuitive but if you're thinking about sex all the time women will smell it and they'll reject you right away. Learn how to have basic conversations that lead to asking for a number

Existing-Big-3039 · 2025-09-02T21:00:54+00:00

It's been eight years for me. It will hurt the first couple years, but you'll eventually get used to it and won't miss it anymore.

Title	Angry and tired of don't having sex
Author	Parking-Belt-7190
Upvotes	1
Comments	19
Date	September 2, 2025 7:59 PM UTC (10 months ago)
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