Those of you with a lot of instagram followers does it help you with women

Life-Income2986 · 2025-10-02T23:33:53+00:00

Can you imagine the type of woman that would be impressed by that?

dbootywarrior · 2025-10-03T02:27:19+00:00

From hearing women talk they only think its a bit weird when you have more following than followers, not the total count of either.

Im also assuming youre buying the followers, but what is 10k followers when people can see only 20 likes on your photos because everyone else are bots?

Focus on you and having fun with friends,family, & yourself and post it in your stories. If a girl messes with you she will reply to your stories.

Delumine · 2025-10-03T14:46:26+00:00

Instagram is a goldmine. You find an acquaintance, friend of a friend, or even someone off TikTok. Follow each other, and (not immediately) you can start a conversation off a dumb meme.

There’s your hook. If you have a sexy voice, send a voice note in one of those, and now they’re already turned on. Take them out, and it’s a date that was relatively low risk to setup.

If you’re not using it, you’re missing out.

Certain_Process_7657 · 2025-10-03T01:59:48+00:00

Not on IG anymore. Have a buddy who has good success using it for chicks though. But it's just for easy lays to add to his roster. No wife material types he's meeting that way. Let's just say he plays the black bull card really well.

In terms of gf material chicks, most would like you not having one since most guys just follow a bunch of thirst traps anyway. The only ones who would consider it a red flag are probably chronically online themselves and that's a problem in of itself.

West-Temperature-769 · 2025-10-02T23:32:21+00:00

I don’t think it matters much. What matters a lot more is what kind of content you have. I’m sure it’s nonessential. I personally try and keep my following and followers low and keep out the junk

Fidel__CashFl0w · 2025-10-03T02:43:31+00:00

Not really tbh i think it just helps to get a follow back from them if you have a higher follower to following ratio. I think they like the fact that I don’t follow any IG models or any girl that doesnt follow me back

kstatefan1 · 2025-10-03T01:34:12+00:00

A LOT of woman see not having an instagram as a green flag

Traditional_Guava639 · 2025-10-03T03:13:50+00:00

I'd imagine for men at least, having a closer to 1:1 follower/following ratio is a better look for guys and who they are following. In contrast, a woman with a lot more followers than following might not be seen as a good thing either.

My ex hated all these dumb fake women I followed on IG for years. After we broke up (for other reasons), I did away with the random hot girls I followed and redid my whole algorithm. We need to do away and limit these phones and apps. It's wild but I've had women comment on my ratio.

So its probably a variable for some people but not the whole person.

IncognitoTap · 2025-10-03T03:28:22+00:00

I think it’s more about the material you’re posting. If you post everyday about your average looking meal, or the sun or whatever just for attention then it’s not going to help compared to hanging out with friends, going out, high value things.

Also, it’s a good introduction to get women interested in an interesting lifestyle, but a good women probably won’t care compared to someone who just wants attention and to go out and not invest a lot in you.

VirtualOutsideTravel · 2025-10-03T07:47:13+00:00

I dont find that messenger to be convenient, its just not a usable way to chat, i prefer whatsapp so no for me.

vasko777 · 2025-10-03T09:51:02+00:00

I used to have 1k followers most of which were hot girls I had some pretty tiktok boy posts and definitely helped most would follow me back and reply to messages but really never went anywhere cause I was 17 at the time and had no car. Ive since deleted that instagram and now have 65 followers and more success with women so I think for sure it can help if you know what you are doing but having a good instagram without any other skills won’t di much

indigoshawty · 2025-10-03T11:08:38+00:00

As a girl imo absolutely not.

_Administrator_ · 2025-10-03T16:36:33+00:00

I know a guy has 1m fake followers on IG. He has decent success.

Traditional_Guava639 · 2025-10-03T03:21:24+00:00

Looking is over rated, everyone sees porn. I wanna feel, touch, smell, taste and see. I would just end it, as far as I'm concerned if people sleeping together before marriage than sexual compatibility is very important. Youre essentially trying to find this sexual, personality and looks balance person. If you're a virgin before marriage you want really know any different.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-10-03T04:04:27+00:00

Never used Instagram and it's never been brought up in conversation.

Title	Those of you with a lot of instagram followers does it help you with women
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Date	October 2, 2025 10:37 PM UTC (9 months ago)
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