Despite the title, I do not have the affirmation of the truth. However, that is why I am on this thread to get opinions. I personally believe its enough to prove what happened besides having an actual video.

So essentially I was out with my friends and this woman came up to me and started hitting on me. She knew who I was because she used to be friends with my ex and a coworker of hers. We had met before at our apartment when I was living with my ex. She casually said "I came up to you because I heard your ex was dating (AFFAIR PARTNER) and you were single now". It was so casual like I shouldn't have already known.

To all of you that probably did not seem like alot. However, I already had an idea that she was having an affair during the marriage. I can provide why I thought that in the comments if people ask, but before I was like "it seems like she's having an affair, but I will never know or be able to prove it", blissful ignorance if you will. But for this random woman, who knew me, worked with my ex, friends with her, name dropped the guy I thought it was, and the one my ex told me not to worry about. It was information I was not looking for and it came to me. Is that enough to come to the conclusion that she AT THE VERY LEAST had this guy lined up already?