1.) There's the women who are actually interested in getting to know you and have no issue with low investment dates like coffee, dessert, or drinks. Of course, the place generally still matters, but to a lesser extent.

In general, these ones skip the bullshit and focus on the potential connection you guys could have. Focus on these types of women if you can as they tend to be the most down to earth. Sometimes they even pay their part or offer to pay yours, a true sign of interest from a woman.

80-70% interested in you, 20-30% interested in the date experience

2.) Then there's the type of woman who has idealistic expectations of dating and wants to be wooed with memorable dates if she goes on one. She won't go on a coffee date because in her mind, it's just too simple of a date that makes her assume you're not interested in her.

These types of women still like you, but they make you jump through these hoops of going on dates she deems acceptable, not because she thinks she's high class, but rather because that's just how she's been conditioned to believe dates should be. Not as great as #1, but also not the end of the world.

50% interested in you, 50% interested in the date experience

3.) Similarly, there's the kind who are interested, but who are afraid of wasting their time and also will only go on higher investment dates so that they feel like they have some kind of insurance if there's no spark between you two ("at least I got a dinner out of this")

These women are not interested in you enough for a low investment date, but are still down to meet provided they have their insurance of getting something out of their time of it doesn't work out. Not the best feeling setting up a date with one of these as they're more focused on their ROI than on you.

40% interested in you, 60% interested in the date experience

4.) There's also the kind who might be interested, but consider themselves "high value" and think you need to invest more in them for them to give you a chance. These ones have an inflated self worth and while you can still close them, you'll have to meet their minimum spending/effort requirement first.

Up to you if it's worth it. Often, these types of relationships end up being very one-sided financially and these type of women end up being more interested in what it is you can do for them in that sense than in you as a person. They also often end up being the most physically attractive too.

25% interested in you, 75% interested in the date experience

5.) And finally, there's the ones who are not at all interested in you, but will take advantage of you if you offer them a free dinner or experience.

These ones should be avoided at all costs as they are simply time and money wasters out for their own financial gain. One step away from escorts.

0% interested in you, 100% interested in the date experience

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The easiest way to avoid #5 is to simply never do high investment experiences or food dates as first dates. Of course, this means you'd also miss out on #2 (and 3+4 if you like that type of girl too), but that's not the end of the world.

However, if you're a beginner or you simply don't have the luxury of having multiple options available, then you may struggle to get dates by only focusing on #1. In this case, you should expand to include some options from 2-4 as well so that you give yourself chances to get laid.

One hack to cast a wider net that includes some of 2-4, but not 5, is to suggest inexpensive food dates like cheap lunch menus or casual food spots that don't break the bank. This is where it becomes variable and the girl will only say yes if her interest level in you is high enough.

And even if you're the type of guy who enjoys providing and paying for your girl, that's totally fine, but your girl should deserve it. Don't be rewarding girls you've never met with high investment experiences just because she has a pussy as it sets a bad precedent for future interactions with her.

Use the low investment date ideas as a filter to see who is actually interested in you without having ulterior motives and then if she's earned it, then start treating her the way you want to. That's how you guarantee a good girl.

That is unless, all you care about is getting it in with an attractive girl, in which case go ahead and spend to your heart's content. If you're loaded, that's the best way to bag 9s, after all.