A woman I've been dating consistently for the past month (one date a week) suddenly went cold late last week after I tried to set up a 5th date for a movie + wine at my place. 4th date was last Sunday (which she initiated) which was bagels in the AM, chill in the park + wandering the neighborhood checking out thrift stores, perfume shops, random stores etc. kind of spontaneous stuff. Invited her to my spot but she couldn't come over since she had to cook/grocery shop and we don't live too close; hence we discussed hanging out at my spot the next time for the 5th date.

Up until this point she has been pursuing/texting me first about 80% of the time, 20% on my end. Always enthusiastic to see me, we kissed on the second date and went back to my place however she was too tired after work. 3rd date we made out on a kitchen island after I went to visit a new apartment she's moving to after grabbing bkfast, but couldn't escalate further since there was no furniture and she had to meet some friends after.

Last Friday she texted me saying she was free the next week on Wed, so I suggested I cook dinner and movie at my place (I live alone) on that day (Wed) the following week in the evening. She was radio silent from Fri-Sun, I gave her a call on Sun but she texted back right after saying she was at a friend's get together and would call right back. I followed up the next day in the afternoon saying I didn't hear from her and wanted to confirm the date on Wednesday (today) but got no response. Other relevant context is that she recently got out of a relationship (approx 2 months ago) and initiated the breakup due to not wanting to continue a long distance relationship/misalignment of future goals.

Currently I’m trying to decide between:

A. Pulling back and waiting for her to reach out first because she could be going cold due to recent breakup/evaluating me as a prospect/maybe her ex is reaching out to her again (he's out of state tho) etc. idk lol. Also due to the fact that my text on Monday is possibly borderline overpursuing/pushy. Continue to date other people, have a social life, mute her socials, focus on work/hobbies.

B. Texting her today to set boundaries/hold her accountable and say that if she’s still interested in seeing me then going radio silent for multiple days after I made plans isn’t something that I’m okay with.

C. Go with A and respond with B if she ends up reaching out and there isn't a legitimate excuse for the behavior.

Beats me why she's gone cold all of a sudden. I may have possibly developed a little oneitis since I've been off from work for a few weeks but I've been entertaining other options the whole time; she just stands out more above the rest atm. Annoying for this to happen after things seemed so easygoing/her high interest but it is what it is, open to more insight. I have a pretty thriving dating life but I've found I've run into this hot/cold situation before with women I see potential with in my past.