There was a lot of redpill men under a spousal homicide IG post who defended a man’s murderous actions.

Ok-Journalist7629 · 2025-11-26T10:48:34+00:00

Yes, they are like that. Im not going to "not all red pill men" or "a true red pill man wouldnt do that." Understanding that a huge amount of men operate this way internally is part of RPW, imo. I'm not sure if you are actually surprised or trying to flip people here. Most men, even some women, choose to ignore violence against women unless it's done by a person/group they don't like. A further extension is what you are describing. Most of them are joking and a small terrifying number actually want women to get hurt.

Wife_and_Mama · 2025-11-26T13:58:46+00:00

Don't date Red Pill men or men who tell you about Red Pill ideology. Men who need to be instructed by the internet on how to be "alphas" or good leaders are neither. This is something the ECs and mods tell every single woman who asks. The men's spaces are for men. What they want directly contradicts what women want.

softspoken19 · 2025-11-26T08:04:58+00:00

The red pill has been infiltrated by grifters and literal incels. I wouldn’t call those red pill men. You have to go back pre 2019 to find the doctrine of true red pill men. If a man is actually red pilled, he wouldn’t know what post you’re even talking about.

RedPillDad · 2025-11-26T22:40:51+00:00

TRP and RPW are both big on vetting, on recognizing what constitutes a good partner. Both are also big on taking agency and becoming the sort of person that would be attractive to a potential partner.

OP is conflating toxic online activities with TRP. Media has been doing the same thing for years, painting it up as a convenient bogeyman. TRP is just a stepping stone to help initiate the required grind to become a man of more value. Having awareness doesn't replace the grind. Unfortunately, lots of young guys fail to apply knowledge (low agency) and waste their time complaining about stuff.

Why crusade to change the crappy behavior of strangers? Protect your energy. Just recognize the red flags and walk away.

Edit: Vetting applies to those who want something more serious. Not everyone wants that. All the red flags turn green when it's just about the sex.

CountTheBees · 2025-11-26T22:08:00+00:00

From the Wiki on Understanding RPW vs TRP:

RP women are not trying to specifically date ‘RP aware’ men. Many naturally masculine men will display certain red pill characteristics, but have no familiarity with the actual term ‘red pill.’

Some men that read and participate on RP subs may make good leaders and are in fact already leading relationships of their own.

Some men that read and participate on RP subs are textbook examples of what RP women should avoid.

There is no central redpill authority, the closest we get is a star and EC flair system for participation in the subreddits and red forums. Anyone can say they're redpill on other platforms and no one can verify that.

Crazies will crazy. The anger phase is well known and accepted as a part of a man's "redpilling". Typically the anger phase doesn't go beyond shit posting on redpill subreddits while those men start going to the gym.

I'm not sure what you want anyone here to do.

VasiliyZaitzev · 2025-11-26T18:40:15+00:00

You do realize that you’re getting upset over something that somebody said that was intentionally offensive on the Internet, right? Put your phone down and slowly back away.

TheOneWhoThinketh · 2025-11-26T17:30:04+00:00

Since the rules for male participation are 8 years old and refer to subreddits that no longer exist, I'll risk commenting here. If anyone could point me to new rules I'd appreciate it.

(Man here). I posted this in PPD earlier, I'm just copying it over to here since it seems to be relevant.

Red pill is theory of how sexual relationships work.

Most men who come to red pill do so because they are struggling with dating and have little experience with women, so they often, but not always, think all there is to relationships is convincing women to have sex with you.

Anyone who has had a modicum of success with women understands that there is a whole world of female behavior beyond simply getting into bed with them. Most of redpill is the study of that world, but since most "red pilled" men have never seen that world, "red pill" has become popularized as incels who are trying to lure women into having sex with them, and angry when anything doesn't go their way.

Red pill is just theory. What purpose you use it for will depend on you. Saying that red pilled men are dangerous or bad is like saying quantum physics is dangerous for producing atomic bombs. Unfortunately atom bombs have been the most significant output of quantum physics since it wss theorized, but that doesn't mean people who study it necessarily want to use nuclear weapons on others.

AutoModerator · 2025-11-26T07:58:37+00:00

Title: There was a lot of redpill men under a spousal homicide IG post who defended a man’s murderous actions.

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Full text: There was a woman who got murdered a while back by her soon to be ex-husband, and the last video she posted was praising her STBX for dealing with the divorce process well.

The post showed the video and there was a lot of men who defended the husband’s actions; many of them identified as redpill.

I know it’s Instagram and that it’s a cesspool, but it terrifies me that there is an uncomfortably high number of men who are so-called redpill that said that that “the woman deserved it”, “men are in love and women are in business”, “men stop getting married they’re just going to divorce you”, etc… and it just kept on getting worse.

I don’t see how this puts redpill in a desirable light. I believe that it benefits women who are able to attract great men, but this is just disheartening to see. As it stands, I don’t believe that the majority of redpill men want the best for women anymore, or if they ever even did.

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eluusive · 2025-12-03T05:31:32+00:00

I think I remember what you're talking about. You're talking about Brandon and Jennifer Sheffield? It's very unfortunate, but it's not surprising to me that this happens, nor will it surprise me if the amount of this happening starts increasing.

Modernity sees divorce as relatively minor thing. But, it's really not. People should be very hesitant to marry. Marital infidelity use to be punished severely, and it's not hardly punished at all anymore. The fallout from a divorce can be permanently life altering to people in ways that are not easily repaired.

When the law starts handling things in a dysfunctional manner, people start taking matters into their own hands.

AutoModerator · 2025-12-03T06:59:51+00:00

Title: There was a lot of redpill men under a spousal homicide IG post who defended a man’s murderous actions.

Author No-Ad8127

Full text: There was a woman who got murdered a while back by her soon to be ex-husband, and the last video she posted was praising her STBX for dealing with the divorce process well.

The post showed the video and there was a lot of men who defended the husband’s actions; many of them identified as redpill.

I know it’s Instagram and that it’s a cesspool, but it terrifies me that there is an uncomfortably high number of men who are so-called redpill that said that “the woman deserved it”, “men are in love and women are in business”, “men stop getting married they’re just going to divorce you”, etc… and it just kept on getting worse.

I don’t see how this puts redpill in a desirable light. I believe that it benefits women who are able to attract great men, but this is just disheartening to see. As it stands, I don’t believe that the majority of redpill men want the best for women anymore, or if they ever even did.

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pearlsandstilettos · 2025-12-03T15:53:32+00:00

We have a rule about not complaining about the men who share a philosophy with us. This post initially walked that line and we allowed it but I do not feel that your edits follow the rules here and I am removing the post.

We don't really exist to complain about red pilled men. It's often recommended that they be avoided as their goals are different from ours but beyond that it is off topic.

TheBunk_TB · 2025-11-26T16:46:01+00:00

Trolls and poison pillers?

Czerymoja · 2025-11-26T17:39:11+00:00

They will tell you that it’s not a „true redpill” 🤣 you know incels, Andrew Tate is exception not a rule etc …

Anyway, redpill men can’t want anything good for women even if they tried to. It’s because women and men interest can’t be more different. Anyone who deny that is either stupid or a liar.

Sometimes, I like look at this sub to see how much this training into „good, submissive wife” will go. Women here are like monkeys in the zoo. Generally stupidity is funny sometimes.

The last girl I commented here cried over „divorced” guy who had sex with her, then left her only to „comfort” her that: „it’s not her fault”. 🤣🤣🤣

But, whatever to RP girls. I wish to say they’re like guys praising feminism, but -be honest-feminism was at least a way for them to gain cheap sex. 😉

What RP girls gain from their ideology I will never know 🤨🤣

Title	There was a lot of redpill men under a spousal homicide IG post who defended a man’s murderous actions.
Author	No-Ad8127
Upvotes	21
Comments	41
Date	November 26, 2025 7:58 AM UTC (7 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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