Girls just are not into me attracted I guess. I know this could be an annoying post but atleast give me context:
I (m22) am an very social guy, I don't have any trouble speaking/approaching strangers and girls. I don't get scared or akward or something but when I talk to girls I just can't get them attracted to me and I don't know why. It's like I have sign on my head with "don't get attracted with me"
I am an tall guy (193cm) and people tell me I am nice and very funny all the time. When it comes to looks I don't find myself ugly or somethimg but also not looking goodlike or something. I think I dress well and my hygiene is always on point. I used to be a bit chubby but I lost alot weight (still not done yet tho).
Here are some things what I think that could be the problem: 1 I can talk alot and I speak fast. I have adhd so that is the reason for that I guess. I also have alot of energy because of it. I feel like I can be too much.
2 because I used to be chubby and not good at anything when I was younger I developed a huge low self esteem problem. I am working on it but still sometimes I can be very harsh on myself.
3 for those who believe in attachement theories, I am an anxious attached person, I think it comes from me always getting rejected by girls.
4 I am an heavy overthinker..
5 I am an very nice/friendly guy. Not only girls but in general. I think that's why I automatically become an "nice guy" to girls. I also care too much.
Again my main point is. I can talk to girls easy but there is never any attraction from their side and I am sick of it.
Any advice/tips would be welcome :)
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