Men need to understand Cluster B disorders

glyph1c87 · 2025-12-26T12:04:39+00:00

I dated one for a year. Pathological liar and a psychopath, and was able to hide it from me until the end. I got framed for domestic violence after uncovering an affair. Living in a very liberal city.

Positive note is I got to keep my job and my house or else I’d have been truly fucked.

The manipulation was insane. She told me to kill myself on multiple occasions, and every time I tried to break up it got turned around on me.

Please trust your gut instincts gentlemen, they may save your life.

MisfiTjam · 2025-12-26T14:09:00+00:00

Yes. I agree. I have known men abusing their wives and I have seen women who don't earn a damn penny living a lavish life on their husband's salary and manipulating them, abusing them, making a show in frony of the relatives etc. etc. Understanding how cluster B symptoms manifest in both men and women does help to notice such behaviours and protect ourselves from such relationships.

brainhack3r · 2025-12-26T16:47:38+00:00

My ex had borderline personality disorder, AKA BPD.

She was a legitimate, full-on psycho. The way it triggers itself is that early in the relationship, she's completely and totally obsessed with you, and very passionate, focused, and committed to you.

You are her everything, and it feels like true love. Especially if she's your first, you're totally obsessed with her, too.

Probably because she spends every moment with you, wants to be in your bed 247, etc.

The problem is that BPD people put that person on a massive pedestal and they base their life around that person.

So, what happens if you ever want to break up with her? Then you are dead to her, and you become 100% evil.

She came at me with a knife. She harassed me for months. She threatened at the end. She was coming into my work and threatening my co-workers. She got the emails to my customers somehow and started spamming them saying that I sexually assaulted and beat her.

Years in the future, she would do the exact same thing to her daughter.

I ended up having to settle with her for $75,000.

My lawyer basically told me that if she gets in front of a jury and cries, I'll lose probably $250,000 to $500,000.

So $75,000 was cheap.

Do not get in a relationship with a woman that has borderline!

Again, the major indicator for me was severe obsession with me really early on in the relationship.

Rikers-Mailbox · 2025-12-27T02:56:49+00:00

I got banned from TikTokCringe for “misogyny”

But they have no rule for misandry?

Rikers-Mailbox · 2025-12-26T19:05:06+00:00

BPD, if you mean Borderline Personality Disorder can be caused from trauma.

BP, which is Bipolar Disorder is genetic and based on the brains chemistry.

People can have both. The genetic gene for BP, and then also being traumatized by a parent with Bipolar (especially if they went untreated).

Double whammy.

But I think as generations move on with information like this and new meds it can stifle the impact.

My kids are young adults now and know Bipolar is in the family and they may have it, but I shielded them from impact that would cause BPD. That’s the best I could do.

mrkpxx · 2025-12-28T12:32:42+00:00

The Female Psychopath

Subtle and passive-aggressive: Acts behind people's backs, manipulatively, and insidiously destructively.
Extremely dangerous due to cultural underestimation: Women are often misunderstood as "gentle and caring"—this makes them less conspicuous and therefore more dangerous.
Great theatrical skill: Perfectly feigns emotions—cries, fakes orgasms, invents victim narratives.
Psychosexual strategy: Seduces, flatters, feigns infatuation or weakness to dominate and destroy.
Targeted: She uses men (e.g., for money, status, contacts) without emotional attachment—she is a social predator.
Sexuality: Promiscuity is deliberately used for control and humiliation—she sleeps with her partner's friends or colleagues to destroy him.
The partner is a prop: Her entire environment becomes the stage set for her drama—people are "props" for her sadistic games.

When a male narcissist meets a female psychopath

He is destroyed: His grandiosity, his illusion of being special, is shattered by her.
She uses him: As a means to an end – for attention, status, money.
He is deceived: She feeds his ego until he is dependent – then she devalues him and abandons him without remorse.

Consequence: Many male narcissists become obsessive, stalk, or develop mental breakdowns after such experiences.

Rikers-Mailbox · 2025-12-27T02:42:14+00:00

Yes that works.

To file a DV case all it takes is for someone to call the police, tell a story and the police will file it.

Every time the police comes to a home for a DV case, they need to determine who is lying, unless there is blood.

Think about it. You are a rookie officer, you go to a home where all the information you have is a DV case and a knife is involved.

—Screaming hysterical wife on the lawn. Husband sitting on the porch with his arms folded.

OR

—Hysterical husband on the lawn. Wife sitting on the port with her arms folded.

Where’s this knife? Who’s in danger? Should I arrest someone? Who should I arrest?

He’s saying she came at him with a knife! But she’s sitting on the porch with a lemonade!

Who do you believe?

This is a very real scenario I just mapped out. The cops can only take away someone that is seen as a threat. And a psychotic person is very good at sitting on the porch after wielding a knife moments earlier.

Watch “the dark knight” where the cops send in Batman to try to intimidate the Joker. He just sits there. Doesn’t care.

omegaphallic · 2025-12-26T11:27:32+00:00

I think she grossly over steps when she suggests tattoos and piercings are a sign of mental health issues, I've seen plenty of chill folks have tats and piercings. Her conservative idealogy leaks too much into her point, undermining it and Greta Thundberg is not a good example of Cluster B personality FYI, when they did their bullshit terrorism arrest over a freaking sign she was holding she was extremely calm and well behaved.

Its a shame because her basic point was a good one, she just ruined it by engaging in massive over reach.

Van1l4-gor1l4 · 2026-01-02T07:32:06+00:00

Omg…… finally other people are seeing this. I thought I was going insane after learning about this and realizing how many women are like this. Run from these women as fast as you can trust me.

Upstairs_Ear4172 · 2025-12-26T12:32:15+00:00

I hate this demonisation of cluster b disorders, they affect around 1-4% of the population and are incredibly difficult to diagnose, often taking up to a year for psychologists and psychiatrists to accurately diagnosis an individual.

Yet unqualified people actually think they can spot these types of disorders without even meeting a person because checks notes tattoos = bad? It’s ridiculous and further adding to the stigmatisation.

Also important to note, 70-80% of people diagnosed with cluster b disorders are men. If you actually believe in men’s rights, you should be advocating for the de-stigmatisation of these disorders and to support those impacted to seek help and lead normal lives.

mw136913 · 2025-12-26T23:41:50+00:00

Bpd and cluster b is almost ALWAYS just narcissistic personality disorder.

Title	Men need to understand Cluster B disorders
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Date	December 26, 2025 10:34 AM UTC (7 months ago)
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