Signs she is cheating?

Immediate-Story2562 · 2026-01-06T05:22:35+00:00

Learn about attachment theory. It is quite normal to have your guard up because of what happened in the past.
This is how we learn. Best advice is to take your time and not get married soon.
With time all will be exposed. Eventually you will have disagreements and you can see how she handles disagreements etc. This will also show you if she can work through things or if she just runs off with someone else. All this over time will build trust if done correctly. Just my 2 cents.

JRemington80 · 2026-01-06T01:28:30+00:00

How she spends her time with you.

Does she think ahead an plan things with you. Is she looking at ways to create more space for you and her to be together.

Big one - her relationship with her phone. Hiding or turning it away when you’re around. If she’s on it or has to “immediately” respond to someone else

probebeta · 2026-01-05T09:38:59+00:00

How soon after meeting her did you become exclusive? Did she demand that you're exclusive? Maybe she wants to be exclusive and she says that, but I have the belief that what she really wants from you is to show her you can replace her. Like is she visibly wanting external validation, looking pretty when she goes out without you, tests you, lies occasionally about random things, just stop calling her for a while and correct that behavior right away. Why wait until it's too late right? You can lose a girl this way too, but your peace is way more valuable in the long run. My 2c

Spared-No-Expense · 2026-01-04T13:00:53+00:00

Don’t worry she might, but KNOW she will, eventually. And make peace with that via never committing 100% of your heart to her. She will sense you’ve only given 70% of your heart which will make it her life’s mission to get that last 30%, ironically decreasing the likelihood of cheating (or at least delaying it far longer).

MonkeyBranchBuster · 2026-01-04T12:27:01+00:00

Major signs:

She makes mountains out of molehills, everything is a huge problem and there is a feeling of her making up fights.

She doesn't share her day with you, or asks anything about yours.

Seeks constant outside validation, frequent girl's nights out, all others have priority over you.

No enthusiasm whatsoever, no intimacy.

Very protective and secretive with her phone.

In the honeymoon phase, you usually don't have to worry at all, if your gut is not telling you somenting. Always trust your gut, but don't overthink too much.

I knew my ex was cheating the same month as it happened, they don't hide it too well. It's very obvious.

serkovavantgarden · 2026-01-04T07:01:52+00:00

Mindset

All mindset

So what if she does cheat?

Women suck resources right out of your life (time, money etc)

If she cheats, you extract and move on, considerably richer in resources.

You’ve been through this before champ. You can whether any storm now.

Have fun with life mate.

Virtual_Ad9235 · 2026-01-04T05:47:56+00:00

Why are you going into something exclusive right now? I appreciate that you’re attracted to who you are but still, you may be dealing with rebound.

Don’t get too rose coloured with your lenses!

AxeMeAnything · 2026-01-04T03:55:24+00:00

Just relax. If she’s not exclusive it’s not your issue.

Go with the assumption that she’s not yours and that you are fine without her.

If it’s not bad news then you’ll be happy. If it is bad news you’ll survive. Don’t sabotage it by being paranoid.

Title	Signs she is cheating?
Author	TXxReaper
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Date	January 4, 2026 3:52 AM UTC (7 months ago)
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