What are your most effective ways to make a woman horny?

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travioli90 · 2026-02-16T01:49:51+00:00

She’s not going to go there unless she feels chemistry or connection. I usually ask about them non stop and mirror them a little, not perfect but it works for me.

jsbach123 · 2026-02-16T06:44:50+00:00

For my girlfriend, gently stroking her inner thighs would do it.

MapledMoose · 2026-02-16T08:39:12+00:00

Grey sweatpants and sleeves rolled up and just start washing dishes

cinammonbear · 2026-02-16T07:28:15+00:00

Teasing. That can take different forms. Grabbing/rubbing her legs/thighs, sensual eye contact, good kissing, playful sexual jokes, long light strokes of skin contact, etc.

Amazing-Confusion109 · 2026-02-16T07:47:45+00:00

Usually just start kissing passionately. Leads to fucking more often than not.

readonlyuser · 2026-02-16T07:26:03+00:00

Tell her some 40k lore about Space Marines

i_pysh · 2026-02-16T08:14:47+00:00

Playful touching

jt4643277378 · 2026-02-16T08:47:47+00:00

There’s a sweet spot on most women at the back/side of the neck. Gently look for it with your hands, then when you think you got it kiss it. It’s like a switch

norwegiandoggo · 2026-02-16T07:44:02+00:00

Make her anticipate sex. By talking about what you're going to do to her, teasing her about whether you will have sex or not, joking about sex - or making flirty statements.

Better_Reference3502 · 2026-02-16T12:42:30+00:00

By stimulating her biggest sex organ: her mind.

Fdc1210 · 2026-02-16T03:57:17+00:00

Suck on her nipples for 2-3 minutes non-stop while sitting next to her. She will get super wet very quickly and she will have no choice but to take you to bed. This is from experience

ominustheone · 2026-02-16T08:25:08+00:00

Usually just kissing in a passionate manner , and caressing her

notathr0waway1 · 2026-02-16T13:21:04+00:00

There is no one technique that always works, and the fact that you think there is is a turnoff!

Learn to read the woman, try a few different things and do what works!

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-02-16T14:44:36+00:00

Like others said, if th vibes not there, then nothing you do will get her there.

But let’s say in this very specific case, you meet a girl at a club. First ill try a way to get in with her. Hype up an outfit choice maybe. Because usually women as their friends 20x before leaving if they look good but it’s not until a stranger complements it that they 100% feel they look good. So im going to be tha stranger. Ill ask where she got it, she tells me. Then i enter a “what brings you here tonight” conversation. If she’s got frinds i hype up thebfriends too. Then ar some point ill try to stat physical contact, like a handshake or dap up or something.

Suring our conversation ill try to find something to kind of shoot the shit with. So for example, a woman once told me her parens Ts paid for her med school and she had no loans. So i went “oh shit so youre a nepo baby” and had a little went back and forth with her. If we’re dancing ill try to make it a bit close with her. At any point if i feel pushback i stop. But it’s a slow thing. Touch her back, being it lower, put my face close.

Women go out for fun men go out to get laid. So it’s a transaction. A lot of men just want to talk to a woman for 5 minutes and get straight to the number or sex. You gotta give her 2-3 hours of fun to get sex.

So then at the end of the night when people get ready to leave is the hard part. How fo you lead it to potential sex? My friend and i devised an idea. Find a way to lead it but also let the woman decide. So if ive kissed this girl, gotten physical at the club with her etc. i go up to her at nights end, kiss her, put my hand on her hip and ask “so whats the plan after this?” If the woman was interested she’d say “idk what were you thinking?” Then have some type of plan “i have a bottle of wine at my place. We could order some pizza and continue the fun”.

If at any point the woman pushes back, says she’s just going home, etc. let her go. Even if she’s at your place, drinks 1 glass and says she’s going home. Let her go.

The thing is, if you go “i wanna fuck” or insinuate it’s strictly going to be a night of sex, you are treating thsi girl like a sex doll. Women get shamed for sex and OnS. So you gotta make her feel like she’s in control of when she wants to leave. She can leave after 1 drink, etc. then when she’s there if she’s having a good time she may give you want you want since she’s having such a great time.

deepdiver23 · 2026-02-16T03:51:17+00:00

Run yo money up And ignore the bitch. Bet she give it you. Good luck boys 💯

naughtyhuman · 2026-02-16T13:13:35+00:00

Pay attention to her. Her words, actions , body language. All of it.

Matter_Still · 2026-02-16T14:42:45+00:00

You cannot “make” a woman attracted to you unless something about you resonates with whatever she finds attractive. “Pickup” is predicated on the fiction that you can coax desire out of a woman since she is basically a sophisticated vending machine: push the right buttons in the right order and it’s game on.

Wrong. It’s more like they have some sort of facial recognition. If you match you have a shot. If not, step off.

Material-Page-1295 · 2026-02-16T12:34:14+00:00

Give her money

yarddog9 · 2026-02-16T13:17:44+00:00

Neck and earlobe nibbles. Give her goosebumps.

drithvik077 · 2026-02-16T14:07:54+00:00

If there's a vibe, keep touching her playfully, make it seem more sensual with each touch, maintain physical contact, take it slow, keep talking about them, once you build the anticipation or tension, start taking about how it would feel kissing her or something you think that would intiate intimacy, don't go full throttle and say something creepy (something like 'babe let's go to the bone zone' weird af), keep addressing her through her name often throughout the conversation instead of babe or whatever( idk why I do this, but i think it's imp), maintain good eye contact throughout and keep her comfy. It's all about building the tension, I hope you get the gist of it. Worked for me most of the time.

giggity23 · 2026-02-16T15:13:53+00:00

I usually run laps around her, puff up my chest and scream as loudly as possible to get her in the mood. From there on I proceed with air humping to get the juices flowing. This method hasn’t lead to actual sex yet but I am making progress.

xindiote · 2026-02-16T15:42:58+00:00

lower her anxiety by making her laugh, break touch barrier, then back off and stop giving her attention, then show sexual interest in another woman and she'll try to get your attention back then reward sexual behavior with attention i guess idk i saw jon zherka say that

1slycoyote · 2026-02-16T16:49:41+00:00

Work on her mind. if the is horny the body will follow.

brandcurious · 2026-02-16T09:14:27+00:00

Genuinely listening to her, do something romantic that she would like beyond just buying her flowers or chocolates (like bake a muffin or make her pasta), break the touch barrier through gentle hand holding, high fives, etc and not pleading to have sex all the time.. just a simple "this feels so so romantic, if its ok I would love to hug you nicely and give you a gentle kiss".. and as they say rest is history

NoImNotStaringAtYour · 2026-02-16T08:50:31+00:00

Just gotta walk into the room

neverknowwhatsnext · 2026-02-16T14:27:30+00:00

Wait until she is ovulating

vertascend · 2026-02-16T05:18:04+00:00

Haha … lean in for a neck kiss…. Work your way to her ear, lick her earlobe…. Pull away and gently blow where you licked…. She’s going to turn into a waterfall buddy…… all this if your whole buildup was solid…

Title	What are your most effective ways to make a woman horny?
Author	Ok-Equivalent-4849
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Date	February 16, 2026 1:38 AM UTC (5 months ago)
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