I (M25) moved to Madrid 2 weeks ago looking to really settle (I work remote) and make a life for myself. Last Thursday I went to a cafe with good reviews and the barista (F23) was absolutely stunning, slim, olive-green eyes, really cute face. I put my order and I felt her getting nervous when I asked where she was from (Venezuela). I was dying to ask for her number but her bosses were right there and I didn’t want to get her in trouble. Next day I went back, she wasn’t as busy and I got her IG. We texted all evening and Saturday we went out for tapas and a walk around the center of Madrid. She is ridiculously funny and witty, we were cracking up the whole time making stupid comments about everything. We kissed in front of the Cibeles fountain and I took her to her metro stop with plans to hang out in my apartment the next day. I really wanted to take things slow with her because the last thing on my mind with her was sex. Yesterday (Sunday) we had a short discussion over kpop (she loves it and I hate it) I thought I had killed the moment but in my apartment we talked things out and I put on a rock band she really likes and she immediately initiated sex. She was ridiculously out of control and it was definitely top 3 experiences, the first round lasted more than half an hour and she came at least 10 times. When we finished I told her I was initially looking to get to know her to date and she said she had emotional blockage and wasnt able to date at the moment, which sucks because she just wanted me for sex. Its my karma because I had done the same to other girls in the past. We agreed to keep it casual in the moment but it’s just difficult because I wanted to open myself up to her more.