My whole life I have been on the red pill side.
I’m a 30s man, conservative upbringing, a decade plus in the military, now I am a solid provider.
I was married 10 years and my marriage was traditional, albeit very unhealthy.

After divorce I began dating and met a very amazing and smart woman.
I wanted her to submit and she wouldn’t. Sexually, logistically, everything.
Years later now.

We are like the opposite of traditional.
I am still masculine and provider, but I have become submissive to her. We’ve done a lot of deliberate talking about it.

I believe that this is the natural order. That women are above men. I do as she tells me to, I cook and clean, wait on her. Sex is completely about her, I wouldn’t dare tell her what to do.
And we are happier and healthier.

The red pill philosophy is ancient and oppressive to women. When given the space to succeed, women are naturally better leaders and more competent.

I am also happier in this role. I’m pretty obviously underneath her in our relationship, but this is sustainable and makes both of us happier.

It’s become a topic I am very passionate about. The manosphere is a dangerous and toxic philosophy being taught to young men.
I want to be an example that masculinity can exist while also submitting to your woman. And that is the natural order of the world. I take pride in my service to her, while also taking pride in my successful career, masculinity, and will raise my sons the same way.