This is another example of how women are just completely oblivious to the difficulty of being a man.

I'm a nomad and I live 6 months overseas in the winter (the awesome part) then when I come back to the US I like to live outside and tour the country in my truck (the lame part) for the next six months.

Women DO NOT find it attractive if a guy lives in a van down by the river.

However, if you reverse it, if a woman does it, she'd have NO problem finding a man.

Right now my rig cost me about $12k to upgrade but I'm mostly living out of the back of my bed of my truck bed with a shell on top. A NICE one but still it's not the sexiest.

I love it though. I have ALL my gear near me, it's super organized, and I get to live in the wilderness every night.

The other day, while I was having coffee in the morning, there were about 25 coyotes a half mile away howling and marking their territory.

This is the type of life I want!

The problem is that it's easy to confuse me as a loser, not as an adventurer.

The ONLY way for me to mitigate that is for me to spend another $15k on my rig so that it looks like an expensive and high end overlanding setup.

Super fancy roof top tent, electronics, lighting, etc.

This would allow me to easily sleep 2 people but even then I have to find a very adventurous girl.

Granted I'll like it but I also lose features like I can't stealth camp in a city without the cops harassing you. I kind of like this anyway as I still get to stay outside at a beach/park or something.

Contrast this to when I would take girls to my super high end loft in San Francisco in my 30s and 40s. As soon as I would bring them home it immediately clicked with them that "oh, he's rich" and the panties would come off.

This is why when women say "men make more than women", which is complete bullshit anyway, I usually argue that we SHOULD because women are expensive!